Ayesha Curry Has Changed the Way Both Men and Women Think
Start writing a post

Ayesha Curry Has Changed the Way Both Men and Women Think

Ayesha Curry is a Phenomenal Cook, Loving Wife and Symbol of Change.

Ayesha Curry Has Changed the Way Both Men and Women Think

Most teenage boys growing up saw the Kim Kardashians, Amber Roses, and Nicki Minaj’s of the world and thought that is what the ideal female should be and act like. They also wouldn’t give a woman like Ayesha Curry a look as they viewed conservative women and less revealing women as a turn off. Most teenage girls viewed woman like Amber Rose, Kim Kardashian, and Nicki Minaj as very promiscuous women, and tried to shame those who had promiscuous sex, or anything to do with those women. They also viewed those Ayesha Curry’s as role models as they appeared to be much more than good looks.

Fast forward to 2016, and we have a change of thinking. Now most men want their ideal woman to be someone like Ayesha Curry. Someone with family values, an ideal housewife, someone you can take home to momma. Not to mention that she’s a world class cook, and cooking to a man is a huge turn on, as the way to his heart is through his stomach. One has to wonder why this change has occurred. One might say this change has occurred due to the boredom promiscuous sex may give a man, as they would prefer to settle down and enjoy life with one woman. This raises a major problem however. While most men should be commended for looking for more than just looks in a woman, it isn’t just about wanting a woman with these values. I could want a million dollars, but that doesn’t mean I deserve it. And just because you want to settle down with an Ayesha Curry doesn’t mean you’re her Stephen Curry.

Stephen Curry is an NBA superstar, arguably the most popular and best player in the world and can have any woman on the planet if he chose to. Despite Stephen having these credentials and being able to have anyone he may choose, he chose the woman most guys were avoiding a few years ago. And it isn’t just because he’s some megastar, Ayesha has been married to Stephen Curry since 2011. This was before he was a household name, and way before he had any MVP credentials. Stephen Curry was able to show Ayesha Curry how to be treated, and how to be respected. This is something teenagers avoided years ago, and are now paying the consequences.

Another major change that has occurred is within women. The promiscuous women who were sought after just a few years ago, are now no longer desired and are now shamed for being so promiscuous. Those promiscuous women who at one point were able to get away with being pretty, aren’t so lucky anymore. Ayesha Curry has shown men, there’s more than just the prettiest of curves and a mouth with some sharp skills. Now, these women have tried to shame Ayesha Curry for some comments she made about how she prefers to dress. Now, I’m not a fan of condemning a woman for being promiscuous or praising a woman for being conservative because quite frankly, neither have much value on a person’s character. This may show one’s ability to make decisions, but that’s a different argument for a different time. Women who want to be promiscuous, should be allowed to be as promiscuous as possible, just like someone should be allowed to be as conservative as possible. Just don’t get in someone’s face spreading your message of acceptance, then crying foul when someone has a different opinion than you.

Men now have a new standard that doesn’t involve any booty shaking, and a greater reason to respect women (who they should be respecting anyway). Some women now have hope that men will look beyond the good looks of a woman, while other women are upset their looks can’t be enough. Thank you Ayesha Curry.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.

Ready or not, here come the holidays, friends, and if you're as obsessed with the spirit of the season as I am, you are much more ready than not. Thanks to Hallmark Channel's Monopoly game making it possible to celebrate all year long, you can be ready now, too!

Keep Reading... Show less
Stephanie Tango

The pandemic has been in our world for more than half of 2020 and people are still acting stupid. If anything, they're getting stupider. They think that the virus is gone. It's not. Stop going to frat parties. Stop trying to go places without a mask. I wish things were normal, too. They're not.

Keep Reading... Show less
Kai Parlett

In the summer of 2017, 20 type 1 diabetics completed a 10-week 4,000+ mile bike ride from New York to California. They biked against the advice of doctors, family, and friends. Many were skeptical that people with diabetes could complete such a physically challenging trip without putting themselves in danger due to their disease.

Keep Reading... Show less

That's right, you heard that correctly: Demi Lovato and Max Ehrich called off their engagement after the couple originally announced their engagement in July after beginning to date in March.

Keep Reading... Show less

Demi Lovato's Called-Off Engagement Reminds Us Of The Importance Of Taking Our Time In Relationships

While this may be another hardship she sadly has to endure, I know she will find a way to inspire and help others through it.


I am heartbroken.

Keep Reading... Show less

We all love a good ol' sappy Christmas movie and this year, the Hallmark Channel is finally giving us what we want: diversity.

Keep Reading... Show less
Health and Wellness

Seasonal Depression Is Real And It Deserves Our Attention

Check in on your friends throughout the winter season, it can be brutal.


As we transition seasons and enter the last few months of the year, some are feeling grand about this natural shift. But that doesn't mean everyone is thrilled that the weather is cooling down — it's important to extend your knowledge to the phenomenon that is seasonal depression.

The lack of sunlight during the later seasons of the year, beginning with autumn, triggers a state of depression for about 15% of the population. This results in the lack of serotonin provided by the sun, causing it to be hard for some to do a lot of the things that would normally be deemed simple tasks to do during the earlier times in the year like getting out of bed, showering, going to work/school, etc. A major difference is an intense need for sleep similar to a hibernation effect.

Keep Reading... Show less
Health and Wellness

September Is Suicide Awareness Month, But Mental H​ealth Is An Everyday Discussion

Mental illnesses deserve our attention 365 days a year.


September is Suicide Awareness Month, providing an opportunity to raise awareness, further educate yourself, and remember the reality that mental illnesses present. Yet it's critical to understand that suicide awareness is not an annual Instagram hashtag to use and forget. Actively advocating for mental health resources, progress in education, and a broken stigma is an everyday ask — an activity that we can each participate in.

Keep Reading... Show less
Facebook Comments