Being away from home for college makes you realize what you miss from home. Material items like my bedroom, my own bathroom, burritos, or favorable weather top my list of what I miss about home, however how much I miss my mom is unmatched by any concrete possession. For me, the saying ‘you never know what you have until it’s gone’ rings true when I think of my mom.
Although this may be expected from a mother, you are truly my biggest fan. Supporting me with my crazy endeavors from my younger years into high school enabled me to lead with confidence in my favored direction, even when I didn’t know my exact destination. Also, giving me the right amount of freedom to explore the world at a young age gave me the courage to try new things which later developed into life-long passions.
Along with always cheering me on, you have also served as a role model for me. Even if I didn’t realize this growing up, everything you've done serves as a valuable lesson to me. Seeing you (and dad) at nearly every one of my games proves dedication, challenges breed hard-work, watching Dateline and HGTV are acceptable pastimes, and exposing me to good food brings happiness. Also, thank you for demonstrating patience to me. Being patient with not only me but almost everyone taught me the importance of waiting. Things in life aren’t always perfectly timed, however you proved that being patient with it is a successful tactic.
Even though it was frustrating growing up, thank you for challenging me. In retrospect, because you fought with me to do my homework right when I got home and encouraged me to take more challenging classes I developed into a more hard working and high achieving individual. These two assets that you instilled in me have and will continue to benefit me throughout life, something I am eternally grateful for.
Most importantly, thank you for always being there. Although we are geographically separated, our long distance relationship has brought us closer. I look forward to the next phone call to fill you in on a part of my life that you are not physically there for. You've been an ear to listen as well as a wealth of knowledge and advice which has been key when you are not immediately there.
Mom, thank you for always cheering me on, being the best role model, challenging me to be the best version of myself, and being my support system.
