At the age of 7, God gave me one of life's greatest blessings; the chance to be an Aunt. Although I was too young to understand what all this title entailed, I knew I would appreciate it one day... and wow was I right. Since then I have attended many football games, curled (and burned myself on) many strands of hair, and passed down many articles of clothing. As the years go on, and the older you all get- here are a few things to keep in mind:
To my nephews,
If I could give you one and only one piece of advice as you grow up, it would have to be this. The struggles of middle school/high school/college are among you all. In these years, you will meet people who can make or break you, meaning choose your friend group wisely. You've heard it once before and I'll say it again; the choices you make now can and will effect your future. With that being said, these years are also a time to make mistakes. I want you all to know that I am here for you in any situation. From dealing with girls (trust me, I know we're a lot to handle), to getting out of trouble, I promise I am only a phone call away.
The four of you are in such different stages of life right now, which to me is truly amazing. For all of you, whether you're in elementary school, middle school or high school, remember to enjoy it while it lasts. You're going to face some hardships, break some hearts (especially with those looks), and be faced with temptations. Be strong, be yourself, and be confident. You can accomplish anything you set your mind to, and I know you all will.
To my nieces,
First of all, I truly believe you two are the most beautiful girls in the world. When I say that, I don't just mean just on the outside, although that is true. You are most definitely the whole package... meaning the boys are going to come after you girls like no other. In that case, my one piece of advice for you is to never, ever, change yourself for someone else. You both are kind, passionate, stunning, anything and everything someone could ever hope for. There is no reason for you to change who you are to be accepted by anyone.
Girls can be inconsiderate and belittling at times and I'd be lying if I said you won't have conflict among them throughout the years. Being a girl is not an easy thing growing up as you are faced with heartbreaks, backstabbers, rumors, etc. But I can tell you that it does get better, and you do find your place one day. So although you may feel alone at times now, I want you both to know I am here for you as well. Just remember, no boy nor friend is worth losing yourself over.
The more you grow and the older you get, the less likely you are to come to me with your problems and I understand that. This article serves as a written promise that no matter how many years we have between us, few or more, I will support you and guide you for as long as I can. I truly believe there is no greater name to be called than "Aunt" and there are no greater nieces and nephews than you.
My love for you all, and the ones yet to come, is unconditional and I am forever grateful to be your Aunt.
