Throughout the years, I have had numerous 'best friends'. Some of those I would still consider a close and important part of my life, whereas others are no longer someone I would call a friend at all, though they still hold a special place in my heart. However, there is someone that I have called a best friend since day one, and will continue to every day for the rest of my life. That person is my beautiful mother. This one is for you, mom.
Dear Mom,
Thank you.
Thank you for loving me, even on days when I didn't deserve it. I know how difficult I was growing up, and still continue to be. I appreciate your endless hugs after I apologize for saying things I hadn't meant, the thousands of yummy meals you always had ready on the dinner table without asking for any help, and the tiny notes in my lunch box- reminding me that you will always be my best friend. I know there were days when you questioned my actions and my words, but growing up I now know exactly what I am striving to be, and that is just like you.
Thank you for the endless hours of sitting at games, practices, and events. You have been my #1 fan from as early as I can remember, and some of my favorite memories of growing up revolved around me looking up to you in the stands smiling down at me, or getting to hug you after a big win. I could not have been as involved and a part of my tween and teen years if it was not for your continued support. I know I seemed like I did not always appreciate you being there, as I stared down at my iPhone screen coming home from a tough loss, or decided to sit with my friends instead of next to you. I understand how difficult it can be to feel unappreciated, and for that I am sorry. Please know that now, looking back, I realize how much you have impacted my life by sitting there, quietly and without complaining, for all of those hours.
Thank you for teaching me what I deserve. You were always my go to when tears were streaming down my face and I went into a friendship or relationship that, yet again, did not end the way I had hoped. Your gentle shoulder and wise words of encouragement were exactly what I needed during that initial heartbreak, and then your tough love and words of encouragement are what kept me strong. Your never-ceasing love to everyone you know has shown me what I should strive to be as I enter my adult years. I hope that the day I walk down the aisle you feel proud that I have chosen someone whom I deserve, and who, more importantly, deserves me.
All in all, I thank you for being my best friend, my shoulder to cry on, my peanut-butter-and-fluff-sandwich-maker, my running partner, my binge-TV watcher, my dessert fanatic, and most of all- my mom.




















