Dear little brother,
First off, I have to apologize to you. Sorry for all those times that I acted like I really disliked you. All little brothers seem to go through a stage where they’re like a parasite to their older brothers. Not going to lie to you, you really annoyed the hell out of me for a while there. But part of growing up and maturing is learning to deal with occasional annoyance, and it took me a long time to realize that you are the best friend I could ever ask for.
When we were really young, life was pretty damn simple to say the least. A lot of times, you were the only option for me to do stuff with. Playing outside, exploring new places, and getting into trouble filled our days until the sun went down. That made us the best of friends for a while there. But soon enough, I started grade school and quickly thought I was too cool for you.
When big brothers are in elementary school, their little brothers are such a nuisance. The big brothers think they’re so grown, so cool, and so mature. I sure thought all of these things to be true, even though I was actually just a little geek. You’d always try to tag along when I’d hang out with my friends, and whenever I’d have anyone over, ground rules had to be set to keep you out of my hair. I’m sure you felt really left out and disliked, but I just had some growing up to do.
Fast forward to the present day. You’re now an integral part of basically every group of my friends. I have more fun when you’re involved with the stuff I do, and whenever it’s a possibility, you know you’re always invited to join in on whatever fun I’m having. My friends see so much of me in you, and I do too. I can’t really dislike you, since you’re basically a little part of me.
I totally understand why you are the way you are. I understand why you take my style, why you always want to tag along, and why you come to me for advice. That’s what big brothers are for. It’s easier to go through the journey of life with someone to look up to, or simply just someone to be there when no one else seems to be. We’re connected by blood, and that’s a lot stronger than any other friendship can be.
Sorry for all of the flack that I’ve given you over the years for just being the way little brothers are. It’s taken me awhile to realize, but I need you just how you need me. We’ve made some pretty awesome memories over the years, and we’ve got so many years ahead of us. Thanks for all you’ve done for me, and thanks for simply being the best brother ever.
Love,
Your big brother.
