Dear High School Class of 2021,

Whether it dictates the college you’ll go to or the career you’ll pursue, your time in high school sets the tone for the rest of your life. In my own experiences, I believe the most important things to keep in mind on your way to graduation are the importance of applying yourself, prioritizing what makes you happy, and learning the art of self-care.

By the time seniors start applying for college and looking over what they’ve done with their time, they see that they should have done more in general. Applying yourself in academics, clubs, and life doesn’t just make you look good on an application, it makes you feel a certain sense of personal accomplishment. I didn’t truly start giving my 110% until my sophomore year, and in certain aspects, I deeply regret it. By then, I had already missed out on many opportunities that I could never get back. No matter what personal or emotional problems you may be facing, make the most of your time in high school. Chances to shine are all around you.

Before you make a commitment to something, whether it be extracurricular or academic, ask yourself if it is the right choice for you. It may seem simple because you feel pressured to jump into things that your friends are doing, but at the end of the day, you are the leader of your own life and autonomy. Doing things to make others happy just ends up making you feel empty or wanting something more. Don’t waste your time doing something that doesn’t define you and your values. In the long run, the memories you make in whatever club or organization you joined will be little mental tickets to your past; make sure that they are your own. Life is like a little photo book, and you are your own professional photographer.

Finally, high school is supposed to prepare you for real life, but it almost always falls short in that department. After graduation, your safety net is practically gone. You’ll go on to college without the support and constant guidance from your parents. It’s imperative that you learn to become self-sufficient. Learn things for yourself, practice time and money management, and pay attention to your surroundings. Don’t forget to be responsible in everything you do. Most importantly, learn how to love yourself even when you hit rock bottom. Take little steps to brighten your day. Stay hydrated! Go for a walk! Start a garden! Loving yourself is the same as respecting yourself. Your body is your temple and should be treated as such.

Life after high school will be difficult, but worth it. The world is painful and scary, sure, but look for the beauty and it will appear. High school is the prologue to the novel that is your life! Keep your goals in mind and don’t forget where you came from.