No matter how old or young, if you're a daughter or a son, there are certain things only your mom can advise you in. Even if it is not what you want to hear, you know it is coming out of the heart. And for some unexplained reason, in the end she is always right. There is just something about a mothers intuition that is unexplainable. You can tell yourself that you are way better off on your own and you need no help, but let's be honest - sometimes mom knows best.
When you're deciding the next four
years of your life after you graduate high school, it is the most important and
anxiety ridden decision of your life. When you need a little push in the right
direction, your mother will without a doubt tell you "wherever makes you
happy," or something to that extent. A mother can read every expression
and feeling you have - that might have something to do with carrying you in the womb for nine
months. She may have an opinion of what might be right for you, but with
unconditional love, she will set you free wherever you wish to go.
She is the number one go to for
relationship advice. This applies for both genders. Men all need that one
moment in a woman's head so they can better understand their partner. Women
need that constant reassurance, or maybe the harsh truth to whatever relationship
troubles they are facing. Moms will tell you that "every guy is the
same." They know exactly what to say-when to say it. More often than not, your mother probably went through the same, if not similar, issues you are
going through now. For all you women out there, she is the one shoulder you
can always cry on. As for the men, they will tell you everything that your
father may have done wrong, or excelled at, so you either follow in his
footsteps or don't make the same mistakes. They will give you every tip and
advice in hopes that you won't become "like every other guy."
Mothers teach us the little things in
life because they soon become the most important. No longer
are you dependent on her for everything, hence why she is trying to teach you
to save and spend your money wisely. If it's worth the money, it is worth the
work. Money won't always make you happier, but it can relieve a lot of
unnecessary stress in life. Mothers taught their children to always wear clean
underwear and always use soap in the shower. This may seem like nothing, but
good hygiene can go a long way. These simple life lessons are something that
will carry through in our lives. If you look good, you feel good, and you do
good.
When the weight of the world is on your
shoulders, and the light of day is lost, our mothers are there to show us the
light. They will soon ease the weight off our shoulders. There will be a time
in life that nothing our friends say will matter, but the words of mother seem
to resonate more than anything. They want nothing more than their children to
be happy, and they will remind you of your worth. They will remind you that you
are worth more than the universe to her. They will remind you of where you have
come from, and where you still have to go. Mothers will always tell you to
stay true to yourself, and remember the values she has instilled in you.
On the other hand, don’t even try to lie
to your mother. Well, you can try, but a mother knows a liar when she sees one.
You can tell her you are fine, but it won’t do you any good. Even though the
end result to a lie may lead in disappointment, that doesn’t mean she will ever stop
loving you. There is an unconditional love in mothers no matter what. She will
be there through the good, the bad, and the ugly. We are not perfect, and
sometimes we may let our mothers down in some of the choices made, but she will
merely give us advice on how to handle the situation better next time. A mother
shares her experiences in life in hopes that you will learn from them, and
won’t make the same mistake twice. A mother wants to open an a door of endless
opportunities she didn’t have, in which her children have access to, where they
can exceed in whatever it may be.
There are just certain aspects of
life that mothers understand the best. All a mother wants is to listen and
share advice to their children. Friends may come and go, and relationship may
fall or crumble, but a mother will always be by your side if you like it or
not. Friends may tell you what you want to hear, but your mother will always
tell you what you need to hear. They tell you the honest truth. Their love for their children is unconditional. They are always there to listen to you complain, laugh, or cry. Mothers want nothing but the best for their children, and will always go over and beyond to give you everything you desire. It's not their job or duty to tell their children they are beautiful, handsome, great, or one of a kind - they are you telling you the truth. There are certain aspects of life that only a mother can help advise you to capture, and they will always remind you to love yourself before loving anyone else.
Don't forget, a mothers advice and life lessons are coming straight from the heart and soul.
