Loud girls usually get a bad rap. We are told since day one that girls must be lady-like, graceful, poised and polite. This standard is unconsciously known in everyone’s mind, and at one point or another every girl has questioned whether their behavior aligns with this standard.
Here's to the loud girls who laugh so loudly in a room or restaurant that they snort or cry, who have been called obnoxious more times than they can count, who still break out singing or dancing in public no matter how much our mothers warned us not to when we were little. Loud girls are full of life. Here are nine reasons why they’re the best kind of girls.
1. They’ll never run out of things to talk about
Chatty Cathy is without a doubt an extrovert. Outgoing girls have a talent of being able to strike up a conversation with anyone. It can be a stranger, your dog or a boyfriend’s parents. It doesn’t make them uncomfortable to ask people lots of personal questions—because how else are you supposed to get to know a person? Outgoing girls have a genuine interest in people and their stories, which is why talking comes natural.
2. They’re fun to be around
This one’s a no-brainer. Outgoing girls are always smiling, laughing, joking around and yelling about something. If you think about fun things in general—like roller coasters and concerts—what do they all have in common? They’re loud, exciting, and full of energy. Roller coasters give us a thrill. Concerts have good vibes. Outgoing girls are basically walking roller coasters and concerts. There’s never a boring moment with them.
3. They’re spontaneous
Outgoing girls are down for anything. Yes, of course shy girls can be as well once they’re out of their comfort zone, but outgoing girls will agree without hesitation. They love to explore and leave their comfort zone. They live to try new things, whether it’s new food, visiting a new place or learning about something they’re interested in. These girls will still show up when Friday night plans are made last minute—and if plans are ever canceled, they’re great improvisers.
4. Outgoing girls are good at reading people
Outgoing girls have met a lot of different types of people. With all the talking they do at social events, the grocery store, the restaurant and mall, they are bound to come across a variety of characters. If you want someone who knows how to interact and observe others, the outgoing girl is the one for you. Outgoing girls have a sense of why people behave certain ways and know the different possible combinations of qualities that make up a personality through experience. They can pick up on social cues and body language and can tell who’s genuine and who’s not.
5. Outgoing girls are the perfect plus-ones
Because the outgoing girl is a master conversationalist, going to social events like weddings where she doesn’t know anyone is not frightening to her. In fact, she thrives in these foreign atmospheres. She loves that no one knows who she is yet, so when she opens her mouth and charms the crap out of people everyone is impressed. There won’t be any awkwardness and if you bring an outgoing girl as your plus-one she’ll probably be the life of the party.
6. They know how to work a room
Everyone is super engaged in what they have to say and their story-telling skills are immaculate. Everyone laughs. Outgoing girls have a great sense of humor, so when they talk to you, you’ll definitely slip a couple smiles. They make people feel special by asking open-ended questions. They have great eye contact and make sure everyone is included in a group discussion.
7. They’ll feel like your best friend right away
From the moment you meet them, they’re all smiles. They talk to you the same way they talk to their best friend. Same energy, same authentic laughter, same playfulness and ease. They share their same thoughts, feelings and opinions. It’s second nature for them to love people.
8. Outgoing girls can cheer you up
If you’re having a bad day, a simple conversation with an outgoing girl can make it better. Outgoing girls know the right things to say when people are down, and although sometimes it can sound like pop philosophy, they mean every word with their entire being. They care a lot about people and especially their loved ones. Seeing a friend upset makes them upset, so they make it their job to bring some sunshine into that bestie’s day.
9. They don’t care about what people think
Outgoing girls continue to be loud and obnoxious for a reason. It’s because they don’t give a f$#& about what people have to say or society’s standards for women. They accept that not everyone will find them charming or funny. Outgoing girls won’t change themselves in order to be with somebody. They understand that they’re not for everyone, that their extroverted and full-of-energy personality may scare some away. However, it doesn’t stop them from continuing their upbeat and bubbly demeanor. They’ll say what they mean and mean what they say. They understand that the important people in their life and the people meant to stay will love them just as they are.
