Sasha here, your one and only source into the amazing advice of Blair Waldorf.

If you've ever seen or heard of Gossip Girl, than you without a doubt know Blair Waldorf. And you know all the words of wisdom she's shared over the course of the show that are helpful even in our lives. And if you haven't than you're about to.

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Don't wait for things to happen. Be assertive. Go out there. Take control. Your life is what you make it, not what you sit around and wait for.

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Admit when you need help. You don't have to go through anything alone. Those who love you will get you through your hardships, all you need to do is ask.

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Never give up on going after what you want. If your keep going, you'll get there. It may take time-a lot of time-but if you work at it and give it all your heart, you'll end up okay.

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You don't need a significant other to feel complete. Independence is a key factor in life and the things you can do on your own are incredible. Stop thinking you need someone by your side to survive.

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Think your life sucks? Watch the news, look on Google, read the paper-you'll see just how privileged you are. And if you stop sulking and take a good look at your life, you'll realize all the good in it.

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Not everything can be in your control. Sometimes you just need to sit back, relax, and let things happen as they will. Stop worrying about everything, you'll be fine.

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Be there for those you care about. If your on their side, their on yours, and you'll have all the support you need to get you through tough times.

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Have fun! Let loose and always aim to have a good time, no matter what you're doing. Enjoy your life while you can-it doesn't last forever.

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Never sell yourself short. You're amazing no matter what anyone else says. Always be you.