7 Secrets To A Healthy Relationship
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7 Secrets To A Healthy Relationship

A healthy relationship will never require you to sacrifice your goals, your dreams or your dignity.

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7 Secrets To A Healthy Relationship
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Relationships can either be a piece of cake or a load of work. It's important to know each other inside and out to avoid any mistakes and unwanted feelings. Here are seven secrets that may help you to maintain a healthy relationship with your significant other:

1. Be yourself. Be sincere.

It's so important that you be yourself when in a relationship. Your significant other should never want to change a thing about you and should love and accept you for who you are. It's important that you also say what you genuinely feel or believe. Never be dishonest with each other because after all, a healthy and stable relationship is built on a foundation of trust.

2. Express your feelings.

Never hide your feelings. You can't guess the way one another feels so it's important that you express the way you feel. If you're upset, tell them. If you're unhappy about something, tell them. Never guess and if they don't tell you their feelings then it never hurts to ask.

3. Give each other space.

Especially in new relationships, it's common to want to spend every split second with each other. In order for your relationship to be healthy, it's important that you give each other space to do your own things. Girls should go out shopping or get their nails done with their girlfriends while the guys should watch sports games together. It's important to divide your time wisely between your friends, your family and each other. Also, give time to yourself so you can reflect and focus on you for once.

4. Be positive.

Never doubt yourselves. If you ever fight, be positive about the outcome and learn how to work it out. Being negative will never get you anywhere. Remaining positive all the time will only help your relationship thrive.

5. Respect each other.

Definitely respect each other's beliefs, values and boundaries. It's important that you discuss with each other comfortable boundaries at the beginning of a relationship to avoid any miscommunication or unwanted feelings.

6. Create memories together.

This one is major key. Make plans, go out and have fun together. Be sure to take a picture so that the memory can last forever. It'll be nice one day to look back at these pictures to remember all of the good times you had together.

7. Make your lives a fairy tale.

No one ever said you're life can not have a fairy tale ending. It may not be like the books and the movies, but if you create your own fairy tale, there's nothing better as long as the two of you are happy in the end.

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