Tomboy—I heard this word constantly throughout my childhood. Why do you play with the boys at recess? Why do you wear baggy clothes? You must be a tomboy. Merriam Webster defines the term simply as “a girl who enjoys things that people think are more suited to boys.” Whether you were called one growing up or still consider yourself to be one, tomboy is a term synonymous with girls who break out of that box called femininity that society attempts to stick us in. I think being a tomboy is something that I have outgrown to an extent, but still identify with. If the way I typically dress and act is considered to be masculine, so be it. I know that when it comes down to it, I can put a little makeup on and rock a dress and heels when I want to. So I’m going to get the best of both worlds. Without further ado, you know you’re a tomboy when…
1. You were one of the boys.
I don’t think this is illustrated any better than being one of only a few girls on your youth hockey team (shout-out to 13-year-old me). Otherwise, hanging out with guys was great because I was on the same wavelength with them when it came to having fun. You want to play with dolls and fishtail my hair? Maybe later, I’m going to go play some touch football.
2. You’re not afraid to get a little dirt under your fingernails.
It’s not like they’re manicured anyway. Playing outside is fun. Do you know what’s even more fun? Mud. Don’t tell me I can’t get dirty because I’m a girl.
3. You know a thing or two about sports.
I’m probably not going to recite statistics to you. Maybe I will though, you never know. Regardless, I can definitely watch and play sports without being totally disoriented. And don’t underestimate how competitive I am.
4. Makeup is probably not your area of expertise.
Yes I do wear makeup, but I’m not going to make it a priority to perfect my winged eyeliner. You probably shouldn’t ask for my help with makeup either. Let’s be thankful I figured it out for myself (kind of).
5. Heels are your #1 enemy.
I put them on and CANNOT WAIT to take them off. They are not comfortable, nor are they made for walking like a normal human. I have never appreciated my sneakers so much. At least my legs look good for the five minutes I keep them on for.
6. The entire universe is shocked when you put a dress on.
For some reason everyone acts like the world just stopped spinning. Yes I do have a shape that I hide under my hoodies and sweatpants. I know I look good, don’t be so surprised.
