The older I grow, the more I realize how grateful I am to have a big brother. My brother and I are six years apart, and he is my only sibling. Even though growing up with the age gap made it feel like he sometimes tried to parent me, I am so blessed to have my big brother in my life. And although they drive you up the wall at times, there are actually many reasons why having a big brother is the best.
1. He keeps you sane, even when your parents are driving you nuts.
Parents can sometimes get on your nerves -- especially when you are a teenager. But having a big bro always made it a little easier to deal with. He understands your frustration, and tries his best to help any situation.
2. Always gives his honest opinion on who you are dating.
Sometimes people in your life avoid telling you their true feelings on your significant other because of how much you may like them, even if it's for your own good. You can always count on your big brother to tell you his true feelings. He wants you to only be with the best, and knows that you will listen to him, even if you don’t want to admit it.
3. He helps set the path for your life.
Being the older sibling sets them up for being the first for almost everything. School, sports, dating, college, etc. And for your parents, it's the first time they experience all of this with a kid, too. Lucky for you, when your time comes around they all have it down pat. Plus, now you have someone to turn to for advice.
4. He made you competitive and not afraid to stand up for yourself.
I don’t know about you, but my big brother teases me. Constantly. But thats OK, because it has made me have a tougher skin. As a kid everything seemed to be some type of competition, but this had its benefits.
5. He's the best at cheering you up.
Just like any sibling, you can always tell when the other one is feeling down. Big bro's hate seeing their little sisters cry, and often will try to make you feel better. Late night games of Mario Kart is the perfect fix to a bad day.
6. He is your best friend, and will always protect you.
It is fun to have someone who is always willing to play games or go get ice cream. It is even better when this same person only wants the best for you. Even if he will never admit it, your big brother is always watching out for you.
