When I began my education at University of the Pacific, never in my wildest dreams did I think I would join a sorority. But low and behold, you're looking at an alumna of the Phi Chapter of Kappa Alpha Theta, and I could not be happier that I made the decision to "Go Greek."
My impression of Greek Life circled around movies like "The House Bunny," "Legally Blonde," and even some of the classic films like "Animal House" and "Revenge of the Nerds" (all great comedies, by the way!). My opinion was skewed by comedic fiction in a minor way, but thankfully some real-life Greek women came along and showed me what Greek life and sisterhood truly is.
When I was rushing the sororities on campus, the girls would consistently tell me, "Greek life gives you an opportunity to be a part of something bigger than yourself." It's amazing how right they are. From all the great memories to one-of-a-kind experiences, here's what I will miss most about Greek Life.
1. Always having something to do and having someone to do it with.
Even though some weeks were crazy with all of the events we did as a chapter on top of everything we had to do as students, I loved how busy we were. We were constantly getting opportunities to be with each other, socialize with other chapters, and learn new and different things. Even if we didn't have a big campus event to go to, we still found little things to do with each other like In-N-Out runs, study parties, or even just watching "The Bachelor" together.
2. The wacky traditions and the secrets (shh...).
Of course I cannot share some of the awesome and crazy traditions that I learned and was a part of in my fraternity, but I can express what an amazing feeling it is to know that I was able to experience something that a Phi Theta from the 1980s, for example, also had the chance to experience. I'll cherish those moments and those secrets for the rest of my life.
3. When we worked together as a team.
As a chapter, we constantly worked together to put on our philanthropy events, plan recruitment events, and even just coordinate house meetings. Nevertheless, when we worked to compete in other houses' philanthropy events or even Lip Sync, our school-wide dance competition, our pride and camaraderie really shone through. Winning this past year's Lip Sync with my sisters is one of my favorite college memories, and one of my proudest moments as a Theta.
4. Giving back to the community.
Here is where I felt the most like I was a part of something "bigger." Between racking up community service hours and raising money for a wonderful cause, I felt as if we were really making a difference and changing people's lives. Those moments teach that Greek Life is not just a partying outlet; Greek Life is about creating bonds with other incredible people and helping those in need.
5. Last, but not least, my family line (obviously!).
My Little and my G-Little are my world! These two beautiful individuals made my entire fraternity experience so worthwhile. Being able to have that person who you can always turn to with exciting news or when in need truly teaches you the meaning of sisterhood and family.
Needless to say, Greek life far exceeded my expectations. I met some of my best friends that I'll have for the rest of my life and I learned life skills that will be a positive influence in my life and the lives of others. Who knew "going Greek" would be one of the best decisions of my life?
