Doesn't it seem like when you start to like a guy almost everything becomes about him? You find yourself constantly telling your friends about the little things he says or does, you think about him during random times of the day, and when you're out shopping, you see something and think to yourself "that would really look good on him." The struggle with liking someone this much is dealing with your untamed emotions, trying not to overstep boundaries and understanding where you two stand. Your feelings could also make it hard for you to know when it's time to leave your beau alone, so I'm giving you 5 reasons you should fall back and let your situation go.
1. He doesn't care to know about the details of your life.
If you've been dealing with this guy for a while and he rarely asks you how your day went, how classes are going or if you need anything, then there is a really good chance that he just doesn't care. If he doesn't care about you enough to ask you how your day went, then that's a big sign it's time to fall back.
2. You never see him anymore.
You never really see him or do anything with him anymore. In fact, the only time you see him is in the bedroom. Whenever you want to see him, he's always busy or makes excuses for why you can't. Everyone makes time for what they want, and if he isn't making time for anymore, you should consider falling back.
3. You feel like you're doing too much.
If you're in a non-committed relationship with someone and you feel like you're giving more than you're getting, then you probably are. If the only time you two talk is when you call him or you've bought him cute little gifts and have yet to get anything in return or you feel like you care much more about him than he does about you, then it's time to step back and leave him alone.
4. At first, it was all about you; now, it's all about sex.
When you first started dealing with him (before you two started having sex), it seemed like it was all about you. He called and texted you multiple times a day, he invited you over multiple times a week and it actually seemed like he wanted to spend time with you because he enjoyed your presence. Now it seems like the only time he wants to see you is when he wants to have sex. If you're in a situation like this, then it's time to fall back and leave him alone.
5. Your thoughts don't align with reality.
You think he really likes you and even wants to be with you, but you're not sure if your thoughts line up with reality. Maybe you should sit back and think about what you want from him and what you're actually getting, and if it's not what you want, then it's probably time to fall back and do something different.
