Being college students, we live in a world where there really isn't anyone keeping tabs on you. Sure there are rules and responsibilities, but you have no curfew, nobody forcing you to wake up and start your day, and there is no one to call your parents to tell them you skipped class or got way too drunk last night.
Coming home from school growing up, they would always ask how your day was, or what you learned today; and now that your away at school you rarely get asked these questions. You're on your own but you sure as heck still need those people to talk to. You know, the ones that raised you?
1. They really do want to hear how your day was.
When you're younger you felt these questions were just like a ritual or something for Mom and Dad, but now they hardly see you; so calling to update them on your classes, friends and adventures, really would make their day.
2. They miss your voice.
You may think, but I just saw them a few weeks ago when I was home for winter break? Well, you used to see them every single day, and they still haven't gotten used to you not walking through the door complaining about all of the homework and drama happening in your daily life.
3. They want you to miss them.
I think our parents truly want us to call them to tell them we need to see them. They want to feel missed because they want to know that the feeling is mutual. Their lives changed immensely when we left for college, and they just want that validation that ours did too. And sometimes we really do just need a hug and a home cooked meal.
4. See how they are doing.
Most of the time we call our parents to tell them everything that's going on in our lives, but don't stop to think about what's going on in their lives. Like how's work? The dog? Grandma? All of these things are far more important than when you call your parents to complain about your roommates. Show them you care.
5. You really do miss them.
It may surprise your parents when you call just to actually talk, but you miss them more than they know. Being on your own is harder than you imagined, but your parents just want to know that you're doing alright. They need validation that you're still breathing and living, at least, three times a week. So next time you're walking to class, give them a call.
