It has been months down the road and I am surprised my boyfriend has not completely ripped my head off yet! I mean don't get me wrong, I am not that awful to deal with but some of the questions I ask him are bizarre and maybe a little annoying.
What can I say? I am just really comfortable with him and at this point, he has fully gotten to know me and my antics. He knows how weird I can be and loves me for it. He has seen me at my absolute worst and accepts me for who I am.
Most of the time, he thinks my remarks are funny but sometimes I see him shaking his head at how ridiculous I can be. I mean, we both know how absurd I can be but he doesn't judge me for what I say. I catch myself asking these questions on multiple occasions but I don't think I'm alone. Ladies, I know you can relate to these 25 questions and if not, you're probably super bearable and I respect you for it.
1. Can I please have a massage?
2. Can you give me and my friends a ride out tonight?
3. Do I look fat in this?
4. Do I look ugly?
5. Can you buy me food?
6. Can I have this sweatshirt?
7. Um, do you know where my phone is?
8. *at 1 am* Can you pick me up from Pub?
9. Can you help me ____ (do any minor task)?
10. How do I do this homework?
11. Can you carry me?
12. Can you get me water?
11. Do you love me?
12. Can you stay up for me till I get home?
13. *8 am* Can you wake up now?
14. Can you make me food?
15. Why aren't you answering my text?
16. Can we do something fun for once?
17. What are you doing? Can you hang out with me?
18. Are you checking her out?
19. Are you hungry?
20. How does this even work?
21. Can you drive my car?
22. This looks really nice, can you wear it?
23. Can you cut your hair?
24. Can you sleep over?
25. Can we work out?
I know I don't ask these because I am super insecure or have issues trusting him. It's just really nice sometimes to have a little justification or his support when I have actual issues. He knows that I ask these out of the goodness of my heart and that I love what he does for me. To know that he will always be there to answer my questions and help me makes me appreciate him that much more.
We are all guilty of being this annoying, but it is okay! After a month of dating me, I warned my boyfriend that I was a handful and he said, "Good thing I really like you!" At this point, he's in too deep to escape me, not that he would want to anyways.
After reading 1-25, I am even annoyed at myself. Although we know we can be annoying when we ask these questions, our boyfriends know we love and appreciate everything they do!
