On October 24, my parents celebrated their 24th wedding anniversary (but 27 years together). They have spent more than half of their lives with the same person. They have been through so much together and they know that no matter what happens they will always have that person to fall back on. This got me thinking about what my parents had taught me. This made me think about the person that they had helped me become and the path that they helped me pave for myself. So this piece is for my parents and (only a few) of the most important things they have taught me.
Always be prepared. This applies to almost every aspect of my life. Be prepared for extra expenses, don't leave home without your wallet, keep the essentials with you in case of a zombie apocalypse....all the most important things
Know where you came from. No matter where you go, know your roots. Know where your home will always be.
Know where you want to go. Set goals for yourself. Don't be afraid to push boundaries and don't stop until you get to the top.
Be patient. Be patient with yourself and be patient with other people. Recognize that not all things will go the way you think they need to, and before you pull your hair out, take a deep breath.
Love yourself. Love yourself always. Know that you are amazing and no matter what people say you are full of greatness. Do not ever doubt yourself.
Family before everything. While some people may come and go, your family is forever. Do not put anyone before them because they will not put anyone above you. They will never leave you when you need them.
God will never give you more than you can handle. When you are doubting why things are happening or you are wondering if things will get better, they will. Have trust in God, because he always knows the way.
Time is often times the answer. Time can heal wounds, time can make decisions easier, time can answer questions and given enough time, you can save up for what you want.
Don’t settle. You are worth more than you will ever know. Do not settle for a boy, do not settle for a job that you do not want. Never stop trying and never stop improving.
Don’t overextend yourself. Sometimes you can stay in. Sometimes you can say no to a night out or a fancy date because of a rough week or a lack of money or because there are some new movies on Netflix. Take your time when you need it. Fill your "love cup".
Keep your word. You word is what people remember about you. Your word is part of your character and your character is what gets you through life when other things don't. You can try and try and try, but it is almost impossible to fully gain someones trust back after you have broken your word.
When I am my parents age, I hope that I can teach my children these same lessons. I want my children to know their worth and I want them to know that they can always count on me, like I have been able to count on them. I want my children to stay out of debt and I want them to reach for the stars and know they will have my support no matter what.
