You’ve probably played the game a million times in hope of discovering answers about someone’s personality and ideas on varying topics. Here are 21 questions for you to ask yourself:

1. What’s your favorite color?

2. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

3. If you could choose any decade to be stuck in, what would it be?

4. What is something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t because you didn’t want to do it alone?

5. What food do you like that everyone around you hates?

6. Have you ever stopped to have a conversation with someone who is homeless?

7. What is your guilty pleasure?

8. [If you party] Do you get tired of going to parties every weekend?

9. Do you go along with what your friends are doing or can you speak for yourself?

10. What do you want to be remembered for?

11. There’s an emergency and you need $50. What friend can you truly count on to lend you the money?

12. When was the last time you went to the park?

13. What was the last children’s show/movie you watched?

14. Why do you support the presidential candidate and party you do?

15. Do you believe in karma?

16. What’s a book you read for school and loved?

17. What attracts you more - intelligence or looks?

18. What food best describes you?

19. Have you become offended by any of these questions?

20. Are you really as happy as you tell others?

21. If not, why are you settling?

Life is too short for it not to be lived in color. It’s okay not to be comfortable in every situation. That means it’s new! Experience new things, meet new people, yet more importantly, find what makes you unbelievably happy and dwell in it with no shame.