From as early as I can remember, someone has always been trying to teach me something. It started with my parents teaching me to walk and talk. It continued in school when teachers tried to teach me the difference between there, their and they're. These are all great lessons but the most valuable lessons you have to learn through experience. Life has always had a funny way of knocking me down. However, I’ve realized that it also has always picked me up and in turn, given me a little nugget of wisdom to help cushion the next blow. Looking back, I’m grateful for the highs and lows, for they have taught me this:
1. Chivalry isn’t dead, it’s hidden in the good guys. They do exist, I promise you.
2. Your standards are yours. Keep them as high (or as low) as you please.
3. Life is short. Your family and that donut will not be here forever. Enjoy them while you can.
4. Taste in boys, shoes, and lipstick will change. Allow yourself to grow.
5. It’s okay to admit you need help.
6.Don’t be afraid to take risks. Ask for a raise, go on that date, wear that brand new dress. The best things come when you least expect it.
6. If you have a passion, follow it with reckless abandon.
7. If you don’t like it, don’t do it.
8. Get yourself a nice pair of heels. Wear them when your butt and confidence need a little boost.
9. The future is the future for a reason. Live in the moment. Carpe the frick out of the diem.
10. That little cushion around the edges makes you a great hugger. Love it, and yourself.
11. Positivity is contagious. Every time you think something negative, replace it with three nice things.
12. The world will try to harden your heart. Stay soft and kind. We need compassion now more than ever.
13. Plan all you want, but chances are things will change. Do not be discouraged.
14. Give just as much, or more than you receive.
15. Educate yourself on politics, religion, and world affairs. Don’t take everything at face value.
16. Just because you’re now an “adult,” that does not mean you do not need your mom. You'd be surprised to find that she needs you, too.
17. Do not rush love. Making timelines and having expectations of where your relationship should be will only hinder you from enjoying "the fall".
18. Also, your relationship is not defined by the amount of photos you have on Instagram or whether or not your friends think you are "goals". Every relationship is unique and special in it's own way.
19. Sparks are temporary. When they fade, you better have some substance.
20. You do not have to have everything together all the time. Life is messy. Learn to love the crazy. You only do this once.
The best part about life is that there is still so much to learn.
