I'm 19 years old. Even though technically an adult, I am in a weird stage of my life. I am not entirely dependent on anyone, I don't live with my parents, I don't have someone making sure I don't miss my alarm, making me food everyday, and watching my every move. At the same time, I am definitely not completely independent. I go to a great school where I am supported in so many ways. From my professors, to my academic advisor, to my counselor, to my coaches, to my directors, to my friends, and to my team mates, I have a web of love and support surrounding me at all times. In a way, I am balancing on the tightrope between being a teen and being, I guess, a real person. I definitely don't know everything, but, here are 19 things I have been able to learn in my 19 years of existence.

1. That B- in high school isn't going to haunt you for the rest of your life.

Like so many other high school students obsessed with chasing perfection, I often found myself agonizing over my grades. Many times it was like I had blinders, unable to see that the gravity of these seemingly monstrous things were, in actuality, not that big of a deal. take a chill pill. You'll be alright.

2. Take a chance.

I believe that too many people live in their comfort zones, my younger self included. Jump in a car without a destination and just drive. Tell that person how you truly feel. Do something crazy. Climb a mountain. Raft a river. Stay up late by the campfire. Your life will be made richer by your adventurous endeavors.

3. Get to know people outside of your friend group.

Too often people stick with only a small group of people. While having a close group of friends is important, it is so rewarding to be able to know more people. So talk to the person next to you in class, invite an acquaintance out to lunch, who knows? Maybe they will become your new best friend.

4. It's alright to cry.

Sometimes it's hard to let your guard down. Know that it's okay not to be okay and that you've got people supporting you the entire way. Without the darkness then how could we ever appreciate the light?

5. Think positively.

Thomas the Tank Engine didn't get anywhere by saying "I think I can't" and neither will you. Positivity often spurs change. Remember to say "I think I can instead".

6. Make time to get to the gym.

I have never regretted working out after I have finished. Even when it takes some motivation to get moving some days it is always worth it. Plus, the endorphins are a huge bonus that comes along with it.

7. Don't worry about what other people think.

There's no point in changing your persona to fit other people's expectations. Let your true colors shine.

8. Smile and the whole world smiles with you.

Everyone has their bad days, and sometimes a smile from a friend or stranger can make all the difference. Positivity is contagious.

9. Stay up to date with the news.

And not just during election season. It's easy to ease into ambivalence and not give a hoot about what's going on, but there are some crazy things out in the world. Opening up a paper and reading about what is happening will help you sound much more well read, and in turn, you will feel more worldly.

10. Do what you love.

Even if people may scoff at your major or intended career choice, it is most important to simply do what you love. In the end, that is what will bring you true happiness.

11. Remember to take time for yourself.

I often am such a worrier for other people that I forget to take time for myself. Make sure to take some time for YOU. Read a book, go on a walk, stay in and binge on Netflix, whatever it is, just let yourself do what you love. Afterwards, you will feel so refreshed.

12. Indulge yourself

It's important to be frugal at times, but don't get too stingy. Even though some things can be expensive the pay off is worth it in experiences. Concerts, trips, camping, going out to dinner, and other adventures can be invaluable experiences.

13. You'll always regret what you didn’t do rather than what you did.

Some things can be scary, but the bigger the risk, the bigger the reward. If you truly want to do something, take that risk and go for it!

14. Don't make someone else your priority if you yourself are simply an option.

Because you deserve better, you beautiful, unique, kick-a** snowflake.

15. Keep a calendar.

It is easy to get swept up in the insanity of everyday life but don't miss that dentist appointment! Calendars help keep your life together, plus who doesn't love the adorable planners you can get from Lilly Pulitzer?

16. Learn from your mistakes and don’t let the bad ones determine how you live your life.

You can't change the past, but you can change the future. Even if you fall down, you can always get back up and keep on keeping on.

17. Call your parents!

They care more than you could ever know. Even when you move far away from home a phone call can mean the world to them. Let them know how you're doing, what you're up to for the week, and make sure to let them know you love them. You never know how much time you truly have.

18. Tell people what they really mean to you.

Even if it's just "I love having you as my friend" you can change an entire person's day. Don't be stingy with your "I love you"s if you truly mean it. You won't ever regret it.

19. Accept yourself for who you are and OWN it.

There is no one out there that is as unique and amazing as you are. Own your quirks, special sayings, and learn to love yourself.