I was born with a chronic gastrointestinal disease that has slowly worsened as time has progressed. At this point my digestive system is almost completely paralyzed. I was taking a shower the other day and had an epiphany. Most people write about the negative aspects of their disease, so I decided to put a twist on it and write about some of the positive aspects of living with a chronic disease. Hopefully this article will inspire others, who are suffering, to take the bad of their disease and turn it into good for others.
1. I get to literally fight every day for those I love
Do you know how we all say that we would fight for those we love if we could? Well I get the privilege to fight for those I love like my family and friends, everyday because I have to fight to live. Every day I have to fight against succumbing to my disease, to letting it win. I have to make the conscious decision to keep fighting no matter what I’m up against. So regardless of what you’re suffering from, be it something mental, spiritual or physical, each of you are fighting for those you love when you fight, one more day, against whatever you are suffering from.
2. I've learned that I have true friends
When you have a chronic disease your friends are true friends. For these friends accept you for who you are, even if that means you can’t eat or do things that a healthy person would be able to do. When you have a chronic disease you learn quickly who’s a true friend and who’s a flake friend. I have fortunately been blessed with true friends in my life.
3. I never would've understood someone else's suffering if I had not suffered first
That’s the truth plain and simple.
4. I wouldn't have been inspired to write two books
Through my disease I have learned many things. So I wrote two books. As I wrote I began to heal from the many emotional wounds I didn’t realize I had sustained. Therefore, I hope others can find healing through my writing. My books are "A Blessing in Disguise" and "Blessings in Hidden Places."
5. I found a love for the medical field
Growing up going to hospitals inspired me to one day work in the medical field, to help other’s who are hurting, and to bring hope where all seems hopeless.
6. I wouldn't value showers as much
Every Friday I get my needle removed from my central port. That is the one day of the week where I don’t have to wear a protective covering, over my port, to take a shower. I can shower freely and let the water flow over every part of my body.
7. I learned a picture really is equivalent to a thousand words
I’ve learned to make memories and attempt to capture them in a picture or two. This allows me to go back and remember the good times, when the bad times are reigning.
8. I wouldn't appreciate how things tasted
When you can’t eat you quickly learn how good food tastes. Food makes me sick, but I’ve learned to appreciate its taste by chewing it, then spitting it back out since swallowing it would only cause nausea and vomiting.
9. I wouldn't have so many cards
I have been incredibly blessed by the cards and gifts that others have given me through my battle. It’s amazing how much someone’s words of encouragement give me the will to keep fighting. So if you know someone who is sick in your life, send them a card, encourage them in their fight. I send people cards every month and I may not get a reply, but I know the card gave them hope and that’s what truly matters.
10. I wouldn't have an appreciation for fresh air
After you have to stay cooped up in a hospital for days, weeks, months and sometimes years you quickly learn to appreciate the smell of fresh air and the feel of the sun caressing your head.
11. I love sunsets
I don’t know when my last day will be. In reality no one does so I’ve learned to appreciate the beauty in the little things, like sunsets, rainbows and lightning storms.
12. I get to see lots of doctors
Some people only see their doctor every year or every couple of years. Some people don’t even have a doctor. Yet I have the privilege to see doctors more than once a year. I get to have someone focus solely on me and help me out.
13. I've learned that 13 doesn't have to be unlucky
So my 13th point is a request that you help me share this post so that someone can look at what they’re suffering from, as a blessing in disguise. So that hope may reach those who feel all hope is lost.
