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13 Signs That Prove Your Relationship Isn't Just Happy, It's Healthy

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Gabbi Howard

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13 Signs That Prove Your Relationship Isn't Just Happy, It's Healthy

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There is millions of different types of relationships in the world that couples share.

But the most important relationship is not only just a happy one but a HEALTHY one.

If you're in a happy relationship but it is not healthy, then, not to push any buttons—but you need to reevaluate. A happy one could last a long while but having a healthy one, it will last forever.

BUT if you are in a happy and healthy one, here is a few signs that proves that you are:

1. Understanding one another is easy

You get each other's language.

2. You trust each other with everything

That includes your heart.

3. Letting each other hang with friends

Besides hanging out with you, it is good to have a girls/guys night out.

4. Being open with your feelings

Hiding is not a term you both know. You are not scared to tell each other how you really feel.

5. Not afraid of being BRUTALLY honest

Sometimes we need some tough love even if we don't want to hear it and we give it right back BUT when it is necessary and the timing is right. We all need a little push and shove to get through this crazy life.

6. Not only is there romance, there is a friendship too

Romance is nice and all but having a friendship within the relationship is the best. There is nothing better than being in love with your best friend.

7. Giving each other space

When you both need it. But space, space can be a good thing. Space gives you both time to miss each other.

8. Having arguments is H.E.A.L.T.H.Y

It shows that you both care about one another. But, having arguments every once in a while is healthy but NOT all. the. time.

9. You value each other as a person

Which means you respect each other and the person that you both are.

10. Sharing is caring and caring is sharing

That's right. You share foods, drinks, sweatshirts (for the girls), anything, you name it, you all share it.

11. You guys don't play the lying game

Lying is not an option. Be honest even if it will hurt one another. Being honest is SO much better than lying. In a healthy relationship, YOU. CAN. NOT. LIE.

12. Supporting each other is a MUST

It comes naturally between you two.

13. And of course, loving each other unconditionally

Nothing can stand between you and your love. Your love is unconditional.

Being happy together amazing, but remember your relationship has to be healthy for it to work out in the long run.

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13 Signs That Prove Your Relationship Isn't Just Happy, It's Healthy

Yes, having some arguments is HEALTHY.

1. Understanding one another is easy

2. You trust each other with everything

3. Letting each other hang with friends

4. Being open with your feelings

5. Not afraid of being BRUTALLY honest

6. Not only is there romance, there is a friendship too

7. Giving each other space

8. Having arguments is H.E.A.L.T.H.Y

9. You value each other as a person

10. Sharing is caring and caring is sharing

11. You guys don't play the lying game

12. Supporting each other is a MUST

13. And of course, loving each other unconditionally

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The Best Lines from the Fab Four

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

Obviously the best superpower.

There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

Don't freak out

Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

Remember that everything works out at the end

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