It’s inevitable. I’ve only been alive for nineteen and a half years. Yet that seemed to be enough time to see loved ones move from this temporary life to an everlasting life. While not a day goes by without pain and sadness, wishing their presence was still here, death has taught me more than I ever thought it would.
1. Death taught me that life is precious
I learned to value every second I have with those around me. Life is a gift that has been given to us by God and we should never take that for granted.
2. Death taught me to cherish the good memories
It is with the passing of those we love that come the constant remembrance of their life.
3. Death taught me that love is the greatest gift we can give to one another
Love everyone. It is the greatest gift we can give to those around us. With compassion, love, and support, the world would be a great place. Love your neighbors. Love your family. Love your friends. Love your enemies.
4. Death taught me to never leave a conversation upset
I learned that we never know when we won’t get to speak to that person again. So never leave a conversation with hard feelings. Never fall asleep upset or mad. Leave things with love.
5. Death taught me that I can be stronger than I thought I could
In the moment, I felt hopeless. But with grieving, I learned that I was stronger than I originally accounted for. I found my own strength in the pain and realized that I can harness my grieving and turn darkness into something beautiful.
6. Death taught me to hold on to the one’s I love
I realized that those who I love are a gift that I have to hold onto. Love every minute you have with them. Laugh and create memories because these will last forever.
7. Death taught me that it’s okay to cry
Crying was a way for me to release my anger and sadness. I learned that it was okay to grieve and go through the process. It is human nature and healthy. We must grieve in order to heal.
8. Death taught me that it’s also okay to laugh
I also learned that you should not hold back laughter. Death is sad but it is the laughter that helps keep the soul of the deceased alive. Laugh about the memories. Laugh with those you love. Laughter is the best medicine.
9. Death taught me to “feel deeply and react fully”
I think one of my favorite quotes is “feel deeply and react fully.” Don’t hide what you are feeling. We are built to feel and react because we are humans. We feel emotions and hurt for a reason. Don’t deny yourself the ability to do so. Trust in the process.
10. Death taught me to rely on others for support
I would not have been able to cope if it were not for the love of those surrounding me. Support makes such a difference.
