The time between Halloween and Thanksgiving is the awkward stage of the holiday season. It's too early for Christmas music (which is up for debate), and too late to binge watch horror movies. While we anxiously await the one day a year where overeating is encouraged, we should keep in mind the true meaning of Thanksgiving. No matter how hard things get, we all have so much to be grateful for. If you have the means to read this article you most likely have a roof over your head, a stable wifi connection, and a phone, tablet, or computer. Instead of saving all of your appreciation for an Instagram caption, here are 10 ways to be thankful before Thanksgiving.
1. Tip your servers.
This is non-negotiable. I don’t care who you are or what point you’re trying to prove, tipping is no longer an act of kindness, it’s a necessity. If you can afford to take your family to a restaurant after a long week of work, you can afford to thank your server. They work just as hard as you do.
2. Call your grandparents.
Your grandparents love you more than anyone. They brag about you to their friends, they send you cards no matter what the occasion, and they deserve a phone call. Even a text, email, or face time will make their day. Show them how much you love them all year rather than just holidays.
3. Thank your Uber, bus, and public transportation drivers.
Although not all drivers are as cool as Benny from "Halloweentown," they deserve to be treated with respect. They deal with drunk, difficult people all day and night. While you don't need to engage in deep conversation with them, the least you can do is say thank you and avoid slamming the door.4. Pay attention to your teacher or boss.
Both school and work can be equally dreadful, but they are unavoidable. If you're paying an expensive tuition or working for a decent paycheck, you owe it to yourself to pay attention to your teacher or boss. You don't need to like what they're saying, but it won't hurt you to be respectful.5. Take a friend out for coffee.
There is something comforting about a warm cup of coffee, especially when it's free. The simple gesture of buying a friend a drink goes a long way. You'll enjoy each other's company and the caffeine.
6. Hug your siblings.
If the last time you touched your sibling was an act of violence, consider giving them a hug. Remind your brother and sister that you love and care for them. Siblings are notorious for fighting, but it's nice to get along with your oldest and forever friend.
7. Hold the door open for strangers and help people cross the street.
Although it's 2016, I am a firm believer that chivalry is not dead. Random acts of kindness can show strangers that you're thankful for their presence, even when you don't know them personally. Even a small smile can go a long way.
8. Donate to a local food drive, or better yet, volunteer.
In high school I had a 24 hour volunteer requirement, but once I found something that I loved the requirement felt like a privilege. You are never too old to get out and help someone. A simple google search of shelters and soup kitchens in your town can show you a large number of volunteering opportunities. The holiday season is a great time to serve.
9. Cook dinner for your parents.
After years of slaving away in the kitchen, treat your mom and dad to a home cooked meal they don't have to make. Even if you aren't a trained chef, Pinterest can be informative and help you look like you have your life together.
10. Pay for the person behind you in the drive-thru.
After years of working at Dunkin Donuts, my favorite days were when a customer would decide to pay for the person behind them in the drive-thru line. This often sparks a chain of kindness, making people's day and lightening the mood in the workplace. Consider it next time you're picking up your morning coffee.
