More often than not, I always hear, "Well, I never know what she's thinking."
*Rolls eyes*
Boys-- women, for the most part, will tell you what is going through their head if you are willing to listen. In an effort to make everyone's lives easier, I decided to create a list of things that girls wish guys would understand.
1. Period pains
We are not exaggerating when we say we feel like we are on our death bed. Oh, and don't compare them to getting kicked in the crotch. No uterus, no opinion.
2. Makeup
You think I spent $100 on makeup to impress you? That's cute. B*tch, I'm trying to impress myself and it makes me feel good. If I want to wear gold eyeliner and you don't like it-- I literally do not care.
3. Dick pics
Only God understands why guys send these, and maybe He doesn't even get it. Don't assume all girls want to see your junk. They are never wanted!
4. Lack of sleep
No girl likes to hear, "Wow, you look so tired." Even thinking about that phrase makes me cringe. You are pretty much telling us we look like sh*t, thanks.
5. Wardrobes
I'm not wearing this v-neck shirt to get your attention. Also, if I'm wearing some high-waisted booty shorts to the pool... leave me alone. I don't need your creepy ass looking at me.
6. Playing video games
Being a video game design major, I always hear, "Do you even like video games?" Do you even hear yourself? No female gamer needs you or the rest of the gaming community's snide comments about being a female gamer.
7. Being honest
If we had a "thing," and then you decide you're not into me anymore, please just tell me, or whoever. We are a lot more durable that you think we are. Nothing pisses me off more than when a guy tries to disappear into the distance. Have some balls and tell me that you're done and then I can move on, too.
8. Feelings
If your eyes cross paths, you will know in about .5 seconds wether or not a girl is into you. If she isn't, she will have this vague, glazed look and maybe a weak smile to go with it. If she is into you though, she will lock eyes with you, smile, and then look down. She may even continue to try and initiate eye contact multiple times too.
10. Be accepting
In a world where women are being continuously judged, it's hard to be ourselves. When we do finally feel comfortable in our own skin, do not shut us down for being confident. Instead, be encouraging and accepting.
