There are a lot of bad things that happen everyday. From racism to war to poverty; there are too many reasons to be upset, and rightfully so. I just wanted to take a moment this week to appreciate people and the small things they do that make my heart warm. I want to take a moment to acknowledge the good in all the bad.
1. Going to the movies
I love the whole idea of going to the movies; not the movie itself, but the fact the strangers come together in a this big room to watch a movie they're interested in. They don't necessarily have conversation with each other, but it's the fact of coming together to sit and watch a movie and enjoy that subconscious awareness of each other.
2. Waiting to eat until everyone has their food
I just noticed this last night when I went out to each with a group of friends. I love that we wait for everyone to get our food before the eating commences. It's almost like people want to be able experience of eating delicious food together.
3. Holding doors for others
It's simple, it's polite; but it's refreshing to see. I love the almost reflexive action that we do to make other's day just that much better. I love to see that small lending hand for each other.
4. Speaking passionately
When you get someone going about a topic they are excited about, it's admirable to see the passion in their eyes; to see the light in their eyes; the uncontrollable gestures of joy
5. Random acts of unrecognized kindness
I remember when I went to Starbucks with my mom a few years ago, and the cashier told us that the person in front of us paid for our drinks. This person would never actually see the joy it brought us, because they didn't have to, and that truly restore my faith in the goodness of people. It has inspired me to do the same, so I often write on receipt wishing my server a good day. They may not enjoy to the extent I want, but the chance that they will is enough.
6. Music
This speaks for itself, but the wide array of genres and music is mind-blowing. It's as if there is a type of music out there for just about everyone. The kind of music that people listen to is indicative of their soul in an artful way.
7. Singing to yourself
Stemming from music, it's sweet to see someone singing to themselves or silently jamming with their headphones in while they think no one is watching them. Without sounding too creepy, it's nice to see people and how they are when they think no one is watching.
8. Hugs
I love that our way of greeting and expressing kindness and love is through the embrace of another person-- it's just so cuddly and nice.
9. Surprises
The look on people's faces when they're surprised is priceless. It isn't a forced expression, it's an expression of complete, genuine shock and it's invaluable.
10. Seeing animals
A classic, a person's heart melts and their actions reflect that every time any kind of animal is present-- especially dogs. No matter what kind of day someone is having, a baby animal is sure to put a smile on their face.
