Your Life Is Worth Living

Your Life Is Worth Living

Whether you believe it or not.

To those thinking they are not enough, not loved or cannot go another day:

Your life is worth living.

Every breath that you have been allowed was for a purpose. Every move you have made—no matter how wrong it seemed—has made you into the person you are meant to be. You are not dumb, fat, ugly, a failure, ruined or not worth the time of day. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are worth more than rubies. You have the potential to be the role model you have always wanted.

Your life is worth living. There is someone out there waiting to find the love of their life. Guess what? You are the love of their life or their soulmate. Is that not worth living? No matter how undeserving you feel, this person who is on the hunt for you will be willing to love every scar, every failure, every hair that comes with loving you.

You may not feel worthy of love. I have news for you—no one is. We all have troubles and problems, holes we have dug ourselves into so deep that there seems to be no escape. But there is a human being just like you and me searching to love you unconditionally. If you were to give up on life, to quit this earth today, they would be on a lifelong expedition that would end in finding nothing. Do not give up.

Your life is worth living. The pains do not lessen, but you can get stronger. We are not born running marathons. We must train, even if we think 26 miles is unattainable. Before we make it through the race we will at one point have cramped and sweated and contemplated giving up. We may fall, bleed and rest, but suddenly the 26 miles is done and we have attained the unattainable. Life is a marathon. The race does not get shorter; we just get stronger. We all struggle. We all cry. We all fall. We all can get stronger.

Your life is worth living. You are not defined by the words of those putting you down or making you feel less than. You are only defined by your own character and confidence. If you think beautifully, you will be beautiful. Do not let the thoughts of the world control you. The world is so insecure in itself; it is looking only to make others feel its insecurity. Be you. Be different. Judge not and be not judged.

Your life is worth living. You are going places. You choose the places. You hold the keys to the door. You decide if you go through the door of depression, self pity and loneliness or the door of joy, love and laughter.

Do you not believe me? Try this. Smile. Smile at every person you pass for 24 hours. Try to make a difference in someone else's life. Do not think about how bad your life is or what you want to change about your appearance, living situation, income or intelligence. Give hugs to every person you would consider even an acquaintance. If you are not happy, you did not follow instructions.

Now, think about everything you hate about your life. Think of all of the parties you were not invited to and all of the times someone let you down. Frown. Have a bad attitude. Argue about anything anyone says. Sit in your room in complete silence. Feel depressed? I thought so. Now close your door.

Your life is worth living. Someone loves you. If you feel it is not true, know that I love you. I probably do not know you, but I love you because you are amazing. You are funny. You are smart. You are beautiful. You are a human struggling to get through life, just like me, the person beside you in class, the person sitting next to you staring out of the window of the bus, the milkman, the news anchor, the straight A cheerleader. We are human. I love humans. And I love you. Your life is worth me writing this. Your life is worth each breath you take. Your life is worth the lessons you learn. Your life is worth living.

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10 Reasons Your Big Sister Is The Best Person In Your Life

"There is no better friend than a sister, and there is no better sister than you."

As much as I hate to admit it, my big sister might be sort-of, slightly, cooler than I am.

Sometimes. She's the one I call when I can't call mom and the only one in the family who can properly handle my attitude. Big sisters are the people you'd choose if they weren't already family, and here's why.

1. She is your first and truest friend.

Big sisters are (literally) there from day one. They see every dirty diaper, every bad haircut, and every melodramatic breakup. They deal with every bad day and drama queen attitude and still love you in the most unconditional way.

2. Her closet is your closet.

For some reason, her clothes always look better on you. Funny how that works, huh? With a big sister comes a big closet, and who doesn't love having a double wardrobe? I'd also like to take this opportunity to apologize for the clothes I will never give back (but I'm not really that sorry).

3. She knows what it's like to deal with your parents.

Anything you could possibly be going through, they went through it first. It's kind of like having an instruction manual or a key to the future. Either way, it's always nice to have someone who will always understand the struggle.

4. There are no boundaries.

Wanna dance around in your underwear all day? Cool. Life talks while she's on the toilet? Also cool. There's no awkward moments or changing in the bathroom with the door locked. There's just the kind of freedom that only comes with siblings.

5. Thanks to her, you know about all of the cool movies/music/fashion trends from years back.

Thanks to my sister, I have every Too $hort and Ludacris song you could ever think of downloaded on my phone. I've seen every cheesy '90s movie, and when a fad from 10 years ago comes back in, I already have the hookup.

6. She tells you like it is.

We all have those friends who tend to sugarcoat everything. Yeah, sisters don't do that. She's the first person to tell me when I'm making a terrible decision and that I really shouldn't triple text that boy again. She keeps it real with me and deals with my attitude, and that's why she's the best.

7. Her home is always open.

Sometimes you just need to get away from life and binge watch Netflix, and sometimes you need all of that plus your sister. She always has her door open when you're two seconds away from losing your mind, and she also has good takeout and a dog.

8. She knows what you're capable of.

My sister knows exactly who I am and what I can do. She knows when I'm not doing my best, and when I need to be set straight. She's always there to remind me who I am and what I'm capable of accomplishing. She's always been my biggest fan.

9. She's a lot cheaper than therapy.

For some reason, my sister always knows just what to say. Even if I don't see it at the time, she's usually right (don't tell her I said that). Big sisters are like wizards, somehow they always magically make you feel like life's gonna turn out alright in the end. If she wasn't already awesome at everything else, I'd suggest she be a therapist.

10. She will always be your go-to gal.

No matter the situation, she will always be by your side. There is nothing you could say or do to make a big sister leave, and that's why they're the best. Whether it's a speeding ticket, a mean girl or you just need to laugh, big sisters are always going to be there to lift your spirits and set you straight.

I couldn't make it without ya sis, I'm sorry for ratting you out on Thanksgiving that one time, and for running away at the zoo. Thanks for taking me to see Aaron Carter even though he's way too old to still be singing "I want Candy," and thank you always for being the best role model, sister and friend I could ask for.

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What Rescuing a Dog Taught Me About My Future

She was a real pain to begin with, but I wouldn't give her up for the world now.


My first dog came from a breeder to us when he was just a puppy. I was in third grade so we were both young together. I remember stepping off of the bus and seeing him curled up in my mom's arms. His breed, a Cavalier King Charles, is a highly sought after dog for their small size and beautiful markings. However, dog breeding can lead to medical complications down the line. Heart murmurs are very frequent as cavaliers get older. When he turned 9 years old, they were already detecting the beginning of a heart murmur in him. But my second dog didn't come to us in quite the same way.

Willow was about a year old. She was rescued from an abusive home where she had to fight for her food from many other dogs. This made her guard resources and distrustful of us. My mom and I begged the rest of our family for the ability to adopt her, and they finally agreed. Being not potty trained, we had to teach her with a lot of positive encouragement when she went pee in the right place (not our carpet). It took her a while to realize that we weren't going to take her food away and she gradually became less resource guarding. She started to trust my other dog more and play with him. A lot of the time, they even snuggle together now.

At the time, I was in my junior year of high school and still thinking about the idea of becoming a veterinarian. She helped me decide to go for it, and now I'm in college and getting ready to apply for veterinary school. Willow has become part of our family, and her funny and unique personality fit right in with us.

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