'YOU' Is The Only TV Romance You Should Watch This Valentine's Day

'YOU' Is The Only TV Romance You Should Watch This Valentine's Day

Sadly, this relationship is more realistic than most portrayed in the media.


It is possible that upon first glance at the show, "YOU," is just another love story. The typical cliche, the lovey-dovey kind that many shows told before it. However, this is most definitely not the case.

"YOU" invites viewers to watch a young book store clerk named Joe Goldberg to become more and more obsessed with a woman that once entered his bookstore: Beck. No, this new edition to Netflix is not your run-of-the-mill love story where falling in love is easy and your potential love interest is not stalking you. "YOU" will most likely make you terrified to enter a new relationship.

Now, ladies, will every nice man you meet in a book store end up being your stalker? Of course not. Now, could the nice man you meet in a book store end up being your stalker? Possibly, which is all the more reason to watch "YOU" this Valentine's Day.

I would like to start off saying that I adore romantic comedies and soapy TV dramas. I do not care how many times people tell me they are cliche or cheesy or unrealistic. I love them. In my opinion, I'm not looking for my choice in a movie or television show to always ground me in reality. Most of the time, I am desiring the exact opposite actually. So, this is not to say that "YOU" is better than those sorts of movies/shows. However, I do believe that "YOU" offers something that those genres of entertainment do lack.

"YOU" offers watchers a hyper-realistic display of a relationship between an unsuspecting woman and her stalker, a relationship that sadly is much more common than represented in popular media. This dangerous relationship is displayed in a show that will keep you on the edge of your seat while also possibly making you question your likeliness to become victim to a man like Joe. "YOU" shows the gruesome truth behind what 'stranger danger' truly means and, I believe, encourages viewers to be more cautious when it comes to entering new instances of romance. Especially in a modern day where online dating is becoming the norm, it is crucial for young women like Beck, as well as all young adults for that matter, to consider the potential dangers in the dating world, especially when a fair majority of that world takes place on the internet.

I will not spoil the show for any of you, but I will say this: Beck has no idea that this man she has just brought into her life is stalking her every move in person as well as online. Beck and Joe did, in fact, meet in person, and yet here this woman is, entirely unaware that this nice man she just met is monitoring her every move on the internet. It is important to note as well that Beck is not naive or stupid for not realizing that this happening to her. She even took precautions such as giving Joe an email address to contact her when they first met rather than a phone number. However, at this point, Joe already had access to her life on a level she, and no other young woman would have guessed.

Even after being cautious, Beck ended up in a dangerous relationship. This show will make you consider what could happen if you were to take zero precautions in your dating life, to just throw yourself into something new with a person you barely know. It will make you think twice in a world where contact with strangers is encouraged and perfectly normal, and I believe that that is very valuable in our world today.

Also, this show is just crazy addicting and suspenseful. You will probably binge-watch it because you are just so desperate to know what will happen next with Joe Goldberg and his screwed up mind. The show not only will pull you in with a series of dark twists and turns, but also show you that maybe you shouldn't trust that cute guy you met the other day immediately.

But anyways, turn the lights down low to set the mood, snack on some chocolate-covered strawberries, grab your significant other (or a really fluffy pillow) and press play, because "YOU" is what is in store for a perfect Valentine's Day.

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10 Shows To Watch If You're Sick Of 'The Office'

You can only watch it so many times...


"The Office" is a great show, and is super easy to binge watch over and over again! But if you're like me and you're looking for something new to binge, why not give some of these a try? These comedies (or unintentional comedies) are a great way to branch out and watch something new.

1. "New Girl"

A show about a group of friends living in an apartment in a big city? Sound familiar? But seriously, this show is original and fresh, and Nick Miller is an icon.

2. "Crazy Ex-Girlfriend"

Ya'll have been sleeping on this show. It's a musical comedy about a girl that follows her ex boyfriend across the country. I thought it sounded horrible so I put it off for WAY too long, but then I realized how incredible the cast, music, writing, and just EVERYTHING. It really brings important issues to light, and I can't say too much without spoiling it. Rachel Bloom (the creator of the show) is a woman ahead of her time.

3. "Jane the Virgin"

I know... another CW show. But both are so incredible! Jane The Virgin is a tongue-in-cheek comedy and parody of telenovelas. It has so many twists and turns, but somehow you find yourself laughing with the family.

4. "Brooklyn Nine-Nine"


Brooklyn Nine-Nine has been in popular news lately since its cancellation by Fox and sequential pickup by NBC. It's an amazing show about cops in, you guessed it, Brooklyn. Created by the amazing Michael Schur, it's a safe bet that if you loved "The Office" you'll also love his series "Brooklyn Nine-Nine".

5. "The Good Place"

Another series created by the talented Micael Schur, it's safe to say you've probably already heard about this fantasy-comedy series. With a wonderful cast and writing that will keep you on your toes, the show is another safe bet.

6. "Fresh Off The Boat"

Seriously, I don't know why more people don't watch this show. "Fresh Off The Boat" focuses on an Asian family living in Orlando in the mid 90s. Randall Parks plays a character who is the polar opposite of his character in "The Interview" (Yeah, remember that horrifying movie?) and Constance Wu is wonderful as always.

7. "Full House"

Why not go back to the basics? If you're looking for a nostalgic comedy, go back all the way to the early days of Full House. If you're a '98-'00 baby like me, you probably grew up watching the Tanner family on Nick at Night. The entire series is available on Hulu, so if all else fails just watch Uncle Jesse and Rebecca fall in love again or Michelle fall off a horse and somehow lose her memory.

8. "Secret Life of the American Teenager"

Okay, this show is not a comedy, but I have never laughed so hard in my life. It's off Netflix but it's still on Hulu, so you can watch this masterpiece there. Watch the terrible acting and nonsense plot twists drive this show into the ground. Somehow everyone in this school dates each other? And also has a baby? You just have to watch. It might be my favorite show of all time.

9. "Scrubs"

Another old show that is worth watching. If you ignore the last season, Scrubs is a worthwhile medical comedy about doctors in both their personal and medical life. JD and Turk's relationship is one to be jealous of, and one hilarious to watch. Emotional at times, this medical drama is superior to any medical drama that's out now.

10. "Superstore"

I was resistant to watch this one at first, because it looked cheesy. But once I started watching I loved it! The show is a workplace comedy, one you're sure to love if you can relate to working in retail. If you liked the Office, you'll like Superstore!

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5 Valentine's Day Gifts You Haven't Thought Of

Five more ideas to throw around that will hopefully help you find a great gift for someone you love.


Don't get me wrong, I love pictures and I love hanging them in my room, putting them on my desk but sometimes it gets old. Sometimes you want something other than the cliche flowers and chocolates. Maybe this year you want something different than a piece of jewelry. There are so many great gift options and if you're like me, you love to find the perfect one for your loved ones. So here are some ideas maybe you haven't thought of yet that your boyfriend or girlfriend or friend would love on February 14th.

If these still aren't the gift ideas you're looking for, don't freak out. You will find something amazing to make or buy. I love gift buying for any occasion but sometimes when I hit a dead end I stress out because I want it to be perfect. I have to remind myself that it's not the stuff that matters and it doesn't always have to be perfect, just meaningful. Take it from me and try not to stress too much over a gift but focus your energy on celebrating with your loved one.

1. Do something together

Instead of spending money on another necklace or more stuff spend it on memory. Buy tickets to a sports game or an amusement park and spend the day/night together having fun. Maybe there is a historic hotel with neat architecture or an amazing breakfast near you could spend the night at. You could even save your money for a trip over summer that you both have been trying to plan but never do.

2. Bake their favorite dessert

Even if it doesn't turn out perfectly, I'm sure they will appreciate the effort you put in. If they don't have a favorite or it's too complicated there are so many recipes out there you can find something unique and perfect for your significant other. For example, if you know they love strawberries instead of just making strawberry shortcake because that's the obvious dessert, do some research and I'm sure there are more uncommon, delicious strawberry desserts a little more personal.

3. Give them a Jar of Kisses for when you're not around

Yes, this is an old one but I think it's cute and you can personalize it. You can get a cute jar or container of any kind and decorate the outside with paint or permanent markers. Write a sweet message on the lid so they smile every time they open it. If you want to customize it even more, you can buy stickers to put on the bottom of the Hershey Kisses with either a message or a picture.

4. Make a bouquet out of something other than flowers

Make love letters and candy and fun little things you usually wouldn't buy like funny socks, smelly soap, a keychain or a t shirt from their favorite restaurant rolled up. You can be really creative with this one and make it exactly how you want. If you want it to look like flowers just cut tissue paper, crumple it on top of each "stem" (item), and tape it. It might not look exactly like a bouquet of roses but it will be more interesting for sure.

5. Find some cute pajamas

I feel like this is one I always wish I had more of. There are so many different styles, patterns, and materials that there so many options. PJ pants are something that doesn't seem romantic but we all like our movie nights in with snuggles too. My favorite brand is PJ Salvage because I love all of their prints. You can also search online at any department store for some great steals.

If these still aren't the gift ideas you're looking for, don't freak out. You will find something amazing to make or buy. I love gift buying for any occasion but sometimes when I hit a dead end I stress out because I want it to be perfect. I have to remind myself that it's not the stuff that matters and it doesn't always have to be perfect, just meaningful. Take it from me and try not to stress too much over a gift but focus your energy on celebrating with your loved one.

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