I Am A Woman, You Are A Woman, We Are Women

I Am A Woman, You Are A Woman, We Are Women

"We should all consider each other as human beings, and we should respect each other." -Malala Yousafzai

If you think this is going to be an article about me screaming my beliefs and feministic ideals in your face, you're wrong. It's quite the opposite. I was inspired after reading the memoir "I am Malala" by the female education activist Malala Yousafszai this week. She is an extraordinary young woman who stood in defiance against one of the strongest and most terrifying forces in her country all for the cause of female education. She was brave enough to realize that something was wrong in her own hometown and even at the age of 10, made it her mission to make a change. Through prayer and courage, she fought for girls' education in Pakistan even when it came to her staring straight at the gun that would shoot her point blank in the head. She did not stop her fight.

This is a testimony and a lesson to all of those women who participated in the women's marches that took place this past weekend. Women united under the cause to fight for the inequalities and injustices that still plague our country. However, it is not just women of one color, one socioeconomic status, one neighborhood that faces inequality still to this day. The marchers seemed diversified even though their cause was equality. I was shocked when I saw signs of women pointing fingers at other women practically saying that their struggle was not the same as their own and they did not have a cause to march for. What classifies one person's struggle to be greater than the person standing next to them?

Malala was able to stand up in a society that told her to be silent and threatened to kill her for speaking out for her beliefs. We live in a country where we are granted freedom of speech and many rights that courageous woman like Malala in our past fought for us to have. Yet we sit here arguing with one another about whose situation is worse? With no guns pointed at our heads but our own fists raised at one another. You should be ashamed that you can objectify another woman simply because she may not be able to stand as boldly as you to fight for her own rights. Each woman is strong and empowered in her own way and will fight for her rights in any way she wants because some women even in this 21st century are silenced. Malala said herself, "we realize the importance of our voices only when we are silenced."

Our country has come to a place where we have started to knit pick one another and place ourselves in an order of whose problems are superior. Where did this wrong sense of entitlement come from? If you are fighting a bigger power to stand united and fight for equality and are going to objectify the people fighting for the same cause, then you better redefine your definition of equal.

In her memoir, Malala talks about the battles she faces to stand up to theTaliban and her government to fight for girl's education. She talks about the freedom for women in the United States, but even then their bodies are used for marketing. This statement stood out to me because it showed that women all over the world face different forms of inequality. Instead of using these differences to further divide our world, we should use them to unite and fight for the bigger cause.

I do not define myself as a feminist, but I believe in equal pay, treatment, and the right to make decisions for the female body. I believe that women all over the world each face their own struggle of inequality and discrimination and should unite as one movement instead of further perpetuating the discrimination against each other.

"We should all consider each other as human beings, and we should respect each other." -Malala Yousafzai

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I'm The Girl Who'd Rather Raise A Family Than A Feminist Protest Sign

You raise your protest picket signs and I’ll raise my white picket fence.

Social Media feeds are constantly filled with quotes on women's rights, protests with mobs of women, and an array of cleverly worded picket signs.

Good for them, standing up for their beliefs and opinions. Will I be joining my tight-knit family of the same gender?

Nope, no thank you.

Don't get me wrong, I am not going to be oblivious to my history and the advancements that women have fought to achieve. I am aware that the strides made by many women before me have provided us with voting rights, a voice, equality, and equal pay in the workforce.

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For that, I am deeply thankful. But at this day in age, I know more female managers in the workforce than male. I know more women in business than men. I know more female students in STEM programs than male students. So what’s with all the hype? We are girl bosses, we can run the world, we don’t need to fight the system anymore.

Please stop.

Because it is insulting to the rest of us girls who are okay with being homemakers, wives, or stay-at-home moms. It's dividing our sisterhood, and it needs to stop.

All these protests and strong statements make us feel like now we HAVE to obtain a power position in our career. It's our rightful duty to our sisters. And if we do not, we are a disappointment to the gender and it makes us look weak.

Weak to the point where I feel ashamed to say to a friend “I want to be a stay at home mom someday.” Then have them look at me like I must have been brain-washed by a man because that can be the only explanation. I'm tired of feeling belittled for being a traditionalist.


Because why should I feel bad for wanting to create a comfortable home for my future family, cooking for my husband, being a soccer mom, keeping my house tidy? Because honestly, I cannot wait.

I will have no problem taking my future husband’s last name, and following his lead.

The Bible appoints men to be the head of a family, and for wives to submit to their husbands. (This can be interpreted in so many ways, so don't get your panties in a bunch at the word “submit”). God specifically made women to be gentle and caring, and we should not be afraid to embrace that. God created men to be leaders with the strength to carry the weight of a family.

However, in no way does this mean that the roles cannot be flipped. If you want to take on the responsibility, by all means, you go girl. But for me personally? I'm sensitive, I cry during horror movies, I'm afraid of basements and dark rooms. I, in no way, am strong enough to take on the tasks that men have been appointed to. And I'm okay with that.

So please, let me look forward to baking cookies for bake sales and driving a mom car.

And I'll support you in your endeavors and climb to the top of the corporate ladder. It doesn't matter what side you are on as long as we support each other, because we all need some girl power.

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There Are Detrimental Side Effects Of The Government Shutdown

While the government has shut down, the lives of 325 million Americans cannot.


What exactly is a government shutdown? With everyone talking about it, it might be difficult to fully get a grasp on what exactly it means for the government to shut down. A government shutdown occurs when certain parts of the government—mostly nonessential offices—close due to the inability for Congress to develop and agree on things like budgets and funding. Since certain groups and offices don't receive funding as a result of this political dissonance, they shut down. Currently, the government has shut down as a result of Congress being unable to produce the funding requested by President Trump to build his border wall—a vast sum of approximately five billion dollars.

Now, a shutdown, by definition, may not sound like much. After all, life seems to go on, doesn't it? For those unaffected, the government shutdown may just be words you hear while flipping through channels. However, the government shutdown is affecting the lives of 800,000 federal workers, and this number may only increase as the shutdown progresses. It is estimated that about 380,000 of those affected are on unpaid leave, meaning that government workers are doing their jobs without receiving their due income. This makes them unable to provide for their families—the sole purpose for working—which inherently puts things like buying groceries and paying rent on an unattainable level.

Those workers aren't the only ones affected anymore, either.

Currently, the government shutdown of 2019 has become the longest government shutdown in United States history, directly affecting upwards of 800,000 people and continuing to affect many more. With government agencies such as the Transportation Safety Administration (or TSA) shutdown, the spheres of our typical lives that we take for granted are directly hindered. Traveling—as many people are, for reasons varying from going or returning from vacations, to students heading back to school—has become a much more unruly process. The government shutdown has caused for a significant increase in flight delays, as well as longer waits through security checkpoints due to the lack of TSA workers in airports around the country. Multiple airports have closed whole concourses as well to accommodate for the absence of workers. There are also safety concerns as well: one passenger aboard a Delta flight to Japan carried a firearm with her.

The government shutdown is not quarantined to the nation's capital and its various agencies. Organizations responsible for ensuring the safety and efficiency that so many of us take for granted have been infected with this spreading epidemic as well, and there does not appear to be an end in sight. National parks are getting vandalized and becoming impassable due to weather conditions normally cared for by employees. While high-risk foods are being inspected by the FDA, many inspections have been halted as a result of the shutdown.

And yet, this government shutdown seems to be an impossible situation. The only way to end it is to provide funding for Donald Trump's wall, some way or another. But what would that accomplish, aside from lifting the shutdown? It would contribute to volatile foreign affairs, the alienation of entire nations and ethnic groups, not to mention the execution of a xenophobic and racist act that shatters the liberties immortalized by the United States.

As the government shutdown enters its twenty-fifth day, citizens and government officials alike turn to one another in order to put an end to this plague—and any toxic, hateful, and dangerous side effects that may come with it.

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