If you're like me, you probably weren't too disappointed to see 2016 left in the dust. I will admit I had the roughest time in a long time during this last year, some wonderful things happened and I can't deny that. I found one of the greatest treasures in my life that year: my beautiful sisterhood.

I'm sure you've heard the story countless times about the girl who "never thought in a million years" that she would join a sorority because she "wasn't the type," and I have to say I felt the same way. However, after recognizing the values and standards of the women in my sorority, it just made sense. These women were intellectual, empowering, inspiring- the kind of crowd I had been searching for. They've pushed me to do better, do more, and do good. I never thought I was capable of the things I've already been able to accomplish and it's because of the unfaltering support these incredible women provide. I will never be able to repay them, and this chapter, for the memories and friendships with which I've already been blessed.

Many people attribute the start of a new year to a fresh start, a clean slate, but it doesn't always have to be that way. My wish for my sisters is a bit different.

I hope you build off of last year and let whatever you left in 2016 be your fuel to make 2017 your year. I hope you recognize your potential and your ability to move mountains. There is a fire within each one of you that drives your passion for something bigger than yourself -- pursue it. Understand that these women will have your back no matter what goes on, and not just because they have to, but because they make the choice to do so every day. That's love.

I hope you learn to love yourself before you let anyone else try their turn loving someone with as much to offer as you. I hope you learn to love yourself, not because society, or I, told you to, but because you understand that you deserve it. I hope you grow stronger in your values and your beliefs and you chase whatever it is that you want to achieve.

I hope this life gives you everything you want. Sometimes it won't, we know this, but I hope you recognize this with grace and humility as you continue into the future. I hope this sisterhood provides you with everything you wanted and fulfills the reasons you joined in the first place.

Take this year easy. Learn to trust the process. I can only hope you're happy with the life you lead, the sisters you chose and the opportunities you create for yourself.