Ever noticed that one girl who just always seems to be independent? The one with the bubbly personality and just seems to be a boss a** bi***? She always strives for success in anything and everything... Yeah, her. I admire her. I admire her because she comes off as a strong independent woman who, well, has her s*** together. She's not your typical girl who seeks for a committed relationship and nor is ready to "settle down." Instead, she gives off the vibe that she... Well, just really doesn't need you right now, buddy—I mean it relationship wise.
She has grown so used to the lovely idea that you have your whole entire life ahead of you. A whole entire life of finding that perfect someone. What's with the rush of finding that someone right here and right now? Maybe her mother or grandmother taught her that she can be a strong independent woman. Maybe she's just been around so many guys in her life that just don't seem to understand her and therefore has decided to not look for anything serious at this moment. Whatever her reason is, it is clear that she doesn't need you right now.
Clearly, that girl knows she has a life to explore. A world to explore, to be exact. Ever heard of the saying: you should travel around the world and just go have fun, then do the whole committed relationship thing can happen afterwards? Personally, I believe so strongly in this. Now, don't get me wrong. It must be so great to find the one and love them with all your heart right now, but it's just not a priority for some of us at this moment. Instead, women like us want to live independently first. We want to see what life would be like after college by living on our own, or maybe with a friend or two. We want to know that we can manage our lives all by ourselves without the reliance on another person. We want to go out on weekends with our closest girlfriends and just mess around while we still can.
In short: that girl just wants to live her life. She wants to have fun and just be with her girlfriends! She loves how she can be the way she wants without having to worry about that "checking in" thing with their partner, because that partner is non-existent as of now. She likes to be free. So please, do not disturb her. If she happens to be interested in someone and does want to have a relationship, she will definitely make it obvious and just go for it. But right now that's just not her top priority or worry in life.
