Why Selfie Culture Isn't The End of the World

Why Selfie Culture Isn't The End of the World

Love your self(ie).

Selfies. We’ve all seen them all over our various social media platforms. And if you’re anything like me, your camera roll is probably at least 80% selfie. Selfies have become an everyday thing in our lives, and we don’t even really focus on the fact that we see so many of them. However, that cannot be said for everyone.

There are countless articles I have come across about Millenials and our penchant for taking and posting selfies. These articles think that our love of selfies makes us self-centered and narcissistic. They think we don’t care about anything other than what we look like. I, on the other hand, see selfies as something completely different.

We live in a society that tells us if we don’t look a certain way, we’re not pretty or worthy. Though this view is slowly shifting, what with plus size models coming to the forefront of ads, Aerie’s refusal to photoshop their models, and more racially inclusive modeling, we are still a long way from being perfect. So what are we supposed to do to combat society’s views on beauty? Enter selfies.

The way I see it, selfies are a way for people to reclaim their beauty, to let the world know that they are beautiful no matter what society thinks, and that is something we really need. With thousands of girls and boys alike growing up hating their body and their looks because they don’t fit in with what society deems acceptable, selfies are a way to fight that. If you are feeling particularly good about yourself, you can take a selfie and let the world know that you’re feeling yourself. And if you were to take a selfie and post it, you should not be ridiculed for doing so.

Sure, some of us may take a lot of selfies (I myself am guilty of taking an unreal amount), but that does not make us narcissistic or self-centered. Selfies can be a way to combat low self-esteem by showing the world that you think you are beautiful, that you really enjoy the way you look, and no one can take that from you. You should be able to take and post as many selfies as your heart desires. It does not make you self-centered or narcissistic in the least. Selfies just let you take control of how you are presented to society and how you view yourself.

So go out there and keep taking your selfies. Keep posting them to as many social media platforms as you so wish. You should be able to take control of how the world views you, and selfies are the perfect way to do so. Ignore the articles you see condemning our generation for our selfies. If selfies make us narcissistic and self-centered, what does that mean for the people hundreds of years ago who sat for hours just to get a portrait of themselves painted to hang in an entryway? If they weren’t seen as narcissistic, I don’t see why taking five seconds to take a nice selfie makes me narcissistic.

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To The Girl Struggling With Her Body Image

It's not about the size of your jeans, but the size of your heart, soul, and spirit.


To the girl struggling with her body image,

You are more than the number on the scale. You are more than the number on your jeans and dresses. You are way more than the number of pounds you've gained or lost in whatever amount of time.

Weight is defined as the quantity of matter contained by a body or object. Weight does not define your self-worth, ambition or potential.

So many girls strive for validation through the various numbers associated with body image and it's really so sad seeing such beautiful, incredible women become discouraged over a few numbers that don't measure anything of true significance.

Yes, it is important to live a healthy lifestyle. Yes, it is important to take care of yourself. However, taking care of yourself includes your mental health as well. Neglecting either your mental or physical health will inflict problems on the other. It's very easy to get caught up in the idea that you're too heavy or too thin, which results in you possibly mistreating your body in some way.

Your body is your special, beautiful temple. It harbors all of your thoughts, feelings, characteristics, and ideas. Without it, you wouldn't be you. If you so wish to change it in a healthy way, then, by all means, go ahead. With that being said, don't make changes to impress or please someone else. You are the only person who is in charge of your body. No one else has the right to tell you whether or not your body is good enough. If you don't satisfy their standards, then you don't need that sort of negative influence in your life. That sort of manipulation and control is extremely unhealthy in its own regard.

Do not hold back on things you love or want to do because of how you interpret your body. You are enough. You are more than enough. You are more than your exterior. You are your inner being, your spirit. A smile and confidence are the most beautiful things you can wear.

It's not about the size of your jeans. It's about the size of your mind and heart. Embrace your body, observe and adore every curve, bone and stretch mark. Wear what makes you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin. Do your hair and makeup (or don't do either) to your heart's desire. Wear the crop top you've been eyeing up in that store window. Want a bikini body? Put a bikini on your body, simple.

So, as hard as it may seem sometimes, understand that the number on the scale doesn't measure the amount or significance of your contributions to this world. Just because that dress doesn't fit you like you had hoped doesn't mean that you're any less of a person.

Love your body, and your body will love you right back.

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American Or Christian?

Can you really be both?


This is a thought that has lingered in my mind for a very long time.

Personally, I hate news and politics. It's depressing and it seems like both parties (and people in general) just don't get it. Political conversation gets on my ever-loving nerves and literally gets me down in the dumps for the day.

I just simply don't watch it anymore. There is too much negativity.

That doesn't mean that I am uniformed. I am not advocating for ignorance or anything like that. I prefer to read and figure out my information from sites "in the middle."

As I was eating dinner with my wife the other day we started talking about the new Abortion laws in Alabama and Georgia. As a Christ-follower and a staunch defender of Biblical inerrant, I detest abortion.

Before you read any farther, you must understand something: This article is not about my defense of my beliefs regarding hot topics like abortion or homosexuality. I do not have the time to write about said topics now. I am just asking you to accept what I believe for the sake of the article.

But, anyway, these abortion bills. I can make a pretty good case that they are Constitutional because they are protecting the Life (one of the Rights given to American Citizens) from others. Yes, I know the arguments against said point but continue with me please.

This led our conversation to talk about Homosexual marriage, something that I am against as well. And not just because of Leviticus but because of the New Testament as well.

But, shaking my head, I said something that my wife seemed to agree with:

"As a Christian, I know it's wrong and I cannot agree with it. As an American, I see no reason why it should be illegal. Unless your choices infringe someone's Rights, you should be free to do what you wish (technically speaking)."

This is my dilemma. Well, actually it's not a dilemma. I know that I am a Christian before I am an American. I love this country greatly, and I know how blessed I am to be born here. For all the hate this country gets (and some of it is deserved) and all the problems we have (and we have a lot), we are shoulders above other countries in many ways. I am so thankful for all the men and women who have served to protect me and keep me safe. I'm thankful for a lot of things. And I am proud to be an American.

But my identity in Christ comes first. This is why I do not get into politics much. I don't really care at the end of the day. Because while America has been blessed, we still have work to do here. And this is not my forever home. This is not where I will spend eternity.

I try and respect everyone's opinions, and I earnestly try to love everyone, even when they trash and disrespect my beliefs and convictions. But I must put my call to Christ about anything that has to do with this nation. I will pray for ALL our leaders because I was told to do so (I prayed for President Obama when he was in office). And I will be here to support this nation. But I cannot put it above Christ's commands.

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