Do not get me wrong break ups are hard for everyone. Especially watching the person you love, love someone else. Even more so, when that person is suppose to be your best friend.
Your best friend is suppose to be your person, your soul mate in friend form, the one person in the planet that would never ever leave you. They are probably your own form of a super hero, being able to read your mind and come to your rescue. What happens when that all disappears? A best friend break up is one of the hardest things you can go through. That person knows secrets about you, you never can get back, years of love and support are just gone.
The worst feeling in the world is sitting back and watching the person you care about the most, become that person for someone else. You never thought you and your best friend would break up, you guys already made a pact to live right next door to each other. You count on them to pick up the pieces when everything goes wrong and now you are left to do it yourself. You opened up to her in ways you have not to anyone else and your love was just not enough for them.
There is hope though because a best friend is a lot like a having a boyfriend. Meaning if it was meant to be then you would still be together. One day you will find another best friend who seems to make the world a little bit brighter and your heart a little bit lighter. You will forget what it is like to be let down and she will be able to love you in ways you did not think were possible. She is going to lift your spirits and carry your baggage with you, she will be your personal cheerleader. Just remember she is out there, you just have not found her yet.
