When you give a girl a big… you give her much more than a week of presents, stacked family photos, and the title of “little”.
When you give a girl a big, you give her someone who is always there for her. You will give her someone who will get in her car at 3 am to come hug her as she sobs when a boy hurts her.
When you give a girl a big, you give her someone to look up to. You give her someone to look at as a role model. Whether it be keeping a 4.0 and keeping up a rocking social life, or just being an all around great person.
When you give a girl a big, you might also give her a “dad.” You give her the man who probably gets annoyed of the endless family selfies and getting called dad at his age. But someone who will still cook and bring her 6 cans of chicken noodle soup when she's sick during finals week.
When you give a girl a big, you give her someone to call mom. You give her a second mom to watch over her. Also, you give her a second mom that she can run to when all she really needs is her biological mother.
When you give a girl a big, you give her endless signs of affection. You give her someone who is always down for hugs when you need one, or even “family tackles.”
When you give a girl a big, you give her reasons to go on last minute trips. You give her a reason to beg for a weekend off of work over Christmas break to travel hours, to just to hang out for night, and then to nap together in a tiny twin bed.
When you give a girl a big, you give her countless memories filled with adventures. You give her someone who is always down for wine-filled nights you wont remember, and nights where you make a blanket fort and watch Christmas movies.
When you give a girl a big, you give her someone who loves her unconditionally. You give her someone who will love her no matter how much her life is in shambles; her big will love her for everything she is and everything she isn't.
When you give a girl a big, you give her family nights like none other. You give her nights filled with mac and cheese, cheap wine, blankets, movies, and even debauchery in the wee hours of the morning.
When you give a girl a big, you give her a best friend. You give her someone she can't live without and is scared to watch graduate. You give her someone to have post recruitment cuddles with, and you give her someone to love unconditionally…you give her her "person".
When you give a girl a big, you give her the opportunity to increase the size of the family. You give her the chance to get a little.
And when you give a girl a little….
