This is for all those who stress a little too much, overthink the simplest things, care when they shouldn’t, and are always looking back at the past. One word of advice: DON’T.
I noticed that I am much happier today than I was a few years ago. This is because I do not care about what others think as much as I did before. Easier said than done, I know. It took me a while to realize that someone is always going to have something to say about you, whether it’s good or bad. There’s going to be someone in this world that won’t like the shirt you’re wearing or won’t approve of your eating habits. No matter what you do, people are gonna talk - it’s up to you to decide if you should do something about it or not.
One thing you should do is make yourself happy. If you really want to eat that cheeseburger, go for it. If you really like that shirt, wear it. When you’re happier, you’re much more confident. That confidence shines through you, and suddenly, it’s like you’re invincible.
What’s the point in worrying about something that’s not going to matter to you in 10 years? For example, why dwell on that break up when you should be moving on to better things? You should not be wasting your thoughts and days overthinking and looking back at the past. If you made a mistake, move forward. There is no point in being sad or mad because you’re only hurting yourself.
If you don’t like something in your life, then change it! Life is way too short to not follow your instincts, passions, and heart. So take a break, call up an old friend and catch up, or drink all the chocolate milk in the world! Do whatever will make you happy and always put yourself first. At the end of the day, the only person that’s going to be there for you, is you.
