I just moved back home after graduation, and as much as I love it, I'm still having some trouble settling in. There are some things I wish I did before moving, as it would have made my life somewhat easier. Looking back, it's quite the list, and here it is:
1. Make sure you can find activities you like doing.
Whether it's poetry, hiking, or a knitting club, make sure you can find people to do it with. It's a good way to make friends and do something you're familiar with in your new home. My suggestion is to join meetup.com as it's an easy way to find groups to join. Or, you can search Facebook for groups specific to your city and ask to join them.
2. Keep in close contact with friends and family (even if it's long distance).
I've been guilty of this on more than one occasion. It can be hard when you don't see the people you care about every day, but Skyping with them or texting or calling them on the phone will remind you that there are people who care about you in this world as you get settled in to your new life.
3. Find a job and and a place to stay before you go.
This one is pretty much a given because it’s so, so stressful to try to find a source of income when you’re already stressing out about finding a place to stay. I've had friends who struggled with this one. Depending on what city you go to, there may not be many apartments available as many of them start pre-leasing early in the year. So do your research, make sure you have a place to stay, and send your resume out to as many places as you can.
4. Do your research.
What kind of climate is it? What kind of activities are available? The internet is your friend. Find what people like to do there, research what your new life will be like, and pack accordingly. If it’s a really hot climate, if would do you well to try to find a place with AC. Or if you don't like the cold, it will prepare you if you know the things you don't like about the place before you go. If you look up the cost of living, the low or high prices won't surprise you, and you can look for a job that pays what you need it to. The worst thing you can do for yourself is set up false expectations and be disappointed or broke.
5. Make sure it’s a good fit for you.
Unless you absolutely have to move there, make sure you’ll mesh well with the climate and the culture before choosing a place to go. Your happiness is important, and if you’re miserable the first few months you’re in your new city, it will reflect on your work and your friendships. Be prepared for the worst, but also look forward to the good.
You’re moving to a new city -- I’m sure wonderful experiences await you. Go get ‘em!
