Everyone has their own perception of what being Greek means: some think it has to do with brotherhood/sisterhood, others feel like it is more about partying and having fun. Either way, both parts play a pivotal role in the Greek system. This article is more about addressing these two themes instead of hindering them.
When I first joined my sorority at State, I was very much looking for both a social and philanthropic atmosphere that could brighten up my future as a budding college student. I got just what I ordered: sisters who loved me and wanted to hang out with me, and a social life that made my high school days seem feeble. Ever since I joined a sorority on campus, I have loved every ounce of my experience.
After transitioning from my new member semester to initiated life and the onslaught of newer girls coming into the house, I got asked many questions. One in particular stood out to me quite a bit. The question was about Greek life and if it was all about partying. Hearing that come up many a time, I have learned that it is best to approach it in a way that explains what Greek life means to me and what it means to girls and boys alike who are in the process of rushing.
Greek life is NOT all about partying. Yes, we do like to have fun and go out with our fellow sisters and brothers, but that does not mean that our life revolves around it. We are more than just kegs and red solo cups; we are a community of young adults who want to strive to become better and help our community. Every sorority and fraternity have their own philanthropies which help them see the bigger picture and make them want to go out and volunteer.
Some philanthropies have to do with breast cancer, others with speech and hearing. As a freshman going through recruitment, I was excited to know that the Greeks at my school were more about giving back than taking in. I believe that we all pride ourselves on helping others and doing good for the community, and in return, sometimes we want to reward ourselves by going out with friends.
To all of the freshmen who are thinking about recruitment next semester or next year, here is some advice I can give to you: do not let other people's opinions on Greek life make you question whether you should go through with it or not. Go with an open mind, and know that sororities and fraternities alike are more than just what you see in the movies.
