How do you know when you’ve found your person? I’ll be happy to tell you. My best friend and I lived on the same floor freshman year and didn’t get along; we were way too similar to bond as nervous freshman. Lucky for us, we got close sophomore year and have never looked back. Here are just 21 ways that I know I’ve found my best friend:

1. We’ve had the same crushes, same tinder matches, and the same make-outs without even knowing it.
2. Because of this, to avoid tearing apart our friendship, we keep a “no kiss list.”
3. Both of us still kiss who we want and our friendship survives.
4. Cuddling is a way of life.
5. I keep a spare toothbrush at her house.
6. We bond over how much we hate our bodies.
7. We also bond over how much we hate going to the Rec.
8. She can convince me to do anything and go anywhere, unless I’ve already taken my bra off.
9. I have her phone pass-code memorized, and her bank pin, too.
10. We walk around campus holding hands and people probably wonder if we’re lesbians.
11. We have a marriage pact for when we’re 40.
12. Sometimes, I feel so alone that I want to change it to 30.
13. She’s sent me Snapchats while pooping, and yes, I've screenshotted them.
14. My friends have become her friends, and hers mine.
15. She’s always there to tell me “come over, who cares about showering?”
16. If I want taco bell at 2 A.M. or to order both a three-cheese blend and an extra-cheese pizza to see which one is better, she’s my girl. When I'm craving Mexican, she is always down.
17. I’m now addicted to Jane the Virgin because of her.
18. Sometimes, we want to punch each other in the face, but we’ll get over it in 6.7 seconds when we have something to tell each other.
19. We’ve picked us each other’s slang; “LOL,” am I right?
20. I honestly don’t know who is the bad influence on whom anymore.
21. We may be in different sororities, but she's still my sister and she's everything I ever wanted.