"I've heard it said, that people come into our lives for a reason bringing something we must learn.
And we are led to those who help us most to grow if we let them. And we help them in return.
Well, I don't know if I believe that's true but I know I'm who I am today because I knew you" ('For Good Lyrics' - Wicked).
As I watch the final girl cross the stage to receive their diploma, I immediately jump to my feet screaming. People all around me turn and stare but I do not care. Crossing the stage is my youngest sister. Two years after my own high school graduation, I can't help but feel proud. My older sister just graduated college and I am following in two years. All around me are people I admire, and I can't help but feel blessed.
The funny thing is I'm an only child. My youngest sister is my best friend's little sister. I've known her as long as she's been alive, and I've known her sister since we were two years old. My older sister is my godmother's daughter. She too is an only child and we were raised as siblings from the start.
As an only child, you often wish that you have siblings. Often you find your closest friends become your non-biological siblings. This is even better, you see the bond that your friend's with siblings have and you also notice the arguing. You feel relief since you have that special bond just minus the arguing.
These are the most special friends that you can possibly have. You belong as a member of their family and vice versa. You know where the glasses are in their house, you can pee with the door open and continue a conversation. These people are your home and you would feel lost if you never knew them.
You can honestly say that you have been through everything together. From birthdays to break-ups, these are the people you turn to. They are always by your side.
They give you the best advice, and at times are brutally honest with you. In most cases their blunt honesty and wonderful advice has already been given to you by your mother. However, you will only listen to your friends. In your mind, their opinion is the one that matters. You hear the advice from your mom, but you don't truly listen until your non-biological sibling says it.
A non-biological sibling is the truest of true friends. I just happen to be lucky enough to have three.
So a huge shout out to you guys, you truly are the real MVPs!!!!
