Everyone I know would yell at me for complaining about being liked, whether it be being liked by guys, or just friends. Besides never being alone, and never having to worry about making friends, it honestly sucks. I can’t begin to explain why, but I’m going to try my best. So here are three reasons why being so well liked, sucks.
- Always having options: When you always have options you don’t have to worry about being not liked or wanted by guys. That is fantastic if you don’t want to settle down or actually love someone, because even if you think you know what or who you want, you really don’t. Someone will come along and try to win you over, and when that happens you think you want them. When you finally get them, you regret it and it’s a never ending cycle. The other bad thing about always having guys like you, is that everyone, and I mean everyone thinks you are a whore. That’s not exactly a compliment.
- Having a plethora of friends: Having friends is great until you don’t know who to hang out with when you have the time and everyone seems to want to hangout with you. Of course you have certain people you’d rather hang out with, but you feel guilty if you choose favorites. So you try not to and after a while it just becomes exhausting. Believe me when I say your friendship is not exhausting all by itself, I love being your friend, but feeling like I need to hang out with every single one of my friends can become a bit much after a while.
- Never having “me time": Everyone needs “me time”, but when you have so many friends and guy after guy, you never really get it. You can be yourself with your friends, and the guys you talk to I’m sure, but it’s not the same as just worrying about yourself and what’s best for you and not everyone else too. Sometimes you need to put your happiness before everyone else’s. It’s not being selfish if it makes you happy.
