What Does It Mean To Be A Woman?

What Does It Mean To Be A Woman?

My definition is one who empowers, what's yours?

In today's society, we are constantly bombarded with the word feminism. In regards to this word, I do firmly believe there should be equality between the genders in the political, educational, and social sphere; however, I do not believe the genders themselves are equal. In fact, I believe it is physically impossible to be equal to someone; we are all unique and wonderfully made in our own special ways. So instead of arguing the similarities, we need to appreciate the differences between the male and female populations.

With that being said, What does it really mean to be a woman?

My definition of a woman and the woman I am working to become is a woman who leads with love. With every inch of my being, I strive to be the type of leader who is loving, nurturing, and understanding, but at the same time strong-willed, independent, and hard working. As a woman, I want to lead as an example for other women to follow in; I want to change the world and make it a better place. My definition of a woman is someone who is caring, compassionate, loving, nurturing, understanding, trustworthy, hard working, and strong.

But like I said, it's my definition. You don't have to agree with me. Every woman is different and we as a population need to embrace those differences.

If you were to ask my sister the same question, you would find her answer is entirely different than mine.

My sister, Kelly, would tell you that being a woman means to challenge gender roles. She values her womanhood as a chance to show men what she is capable of. She looks at the world without fear of judgments others may have of her. My sister is passionate about farming, animals, and hands-on tasks such as fixing. She is tough, resilient, and hard working. She believes that a woman is independent and does not need a man to bring her happiness, she can find it on her own. Yet, at the same time she feels a woman is a supporting backbone in the family and continually ensures the family is a united front.

Isn't my sister awesome? Keep on proving people wrong Kelly, you have the opportunities of the world at your fingertips.

If you were to ask my mom the same question, again her answer would be different from both mine and my sister's definitions because we are different women.

My mom believes the definition of a woman is to be the caretaker of her family, always supporting her husband and children in everything they do and plan to do in their lives. She believes a woman is a strong and confident leader who is an example to her children and everyone around her. My mom believes that a woman is in charge of carrying out the household tasks making sure everything is continually taken care of for her family. My mom is an amazing woman and I look up to her strength, willpower, and love for her family every single day.

If you were to ask a woman in my sorority, Sheela, the definition of what it means to be a woman, again you would see a different answer.

Sheela believes being a woman is being the truest version of yourself. She believes it's about finding the skin you love to be in. For her, the skin she's made of is built upon her compassionate heart and her empowering persona. Sheela is the type of woman who address problems and finds solutions. Her bubbly and light-hearted personality brings energy to the room. Sheela is a great mentor and I know she will accomplish many amazing feats throughout her lifetime.

As you can see, all of these answers differ in some way. There is not one specific definition for the role of a woman in the world. The possibilities are endless.

So, embrace your womanhood, love your differences, bond over your similarities, but always remember you are a woman and that in itself is a beautiful thing.

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I'm A Woman And You Can't Convince Me Breastfeeding In Public Is OK In 2019

Sorry, not sorry.


Lately, I have seen so many people going off on social media about how people shouldn't be upset with mothers breastfeeding in public. You know what? I disagree.

There's a huge difference between being modest while breastfeeding and just being straight up careless, trashy and disrespectful to those around you. Why don't you try popping out a boob without a baby attached to it and see how long it takes for you to get arrested for public indecency? Strange how that works, right?

So many people talking about it bring up the point of how we shouldn't "sexualize" breastfeeding and seeing a woman's breasts while doing so. Actually, all of these people are missing the point. It's not sexual, it's just purely immodest and disrespectful.

If you see a girl in a shirt cut too low, you call her a slut. If you see a celebrity post a nude photo, you call them immodest and a terrible role model. What makes you think that pulling out a breast in the middle of public is different, regardless of what you're doing with it?

If I'm eating in a restaurant, I would be disgusted if the person at the table next to me had their bare feet out while they were eating. It's just not appropriate. Neither is pulling out your breast for the entire general public to see.

Nobody asked you to put a blanket over your kid's head to feed them. Nobody asked you to go feed them in a dirty bathroom. But you don't need to basically be topless to feed your kid. Growing up, I watched my mom feed my younger siblings in public. She never shied away from it, but the way she did it was always tasteful and never drew attention. She would cover herself up while doing it. She would make sure that nothing inappropriate could be seen. She was lowkey about it.

Mindblowing, right? Wait, you can actually breastfeed in public and not have to show everyone what you're doing? What a revolutionary idea!

There is nothing wrong with feeding your baby. It's something you need to do, it's a part of life. But there is definitely something wrong with thinking it's fine to expose yourself to the entire world while doing it. Nobody wants to see it. Nobody cares if you're feeding your kid. Nobody cares if you're trying to make some sort of weird "feminist" statement by showing them your boobs.

Cover up. Be modest. Be mindful. Be respectful. Don't want to see my boobs? Good, I don't want to see yours either. Hard to believe, I know.

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Zimbabwe Is Crying Out For Help And We Need To Listen

And we are turning a deaf ear.


Zimbabwe, a small landlocked country in southern Africa. But in the capital Harare, trouble has already started to brew. Last Friday, Econet Wireless Zimbabwe, the country's largest mobile phone operator was instructed by the government to shut down all Internet access for the second time in a week. But why?

Zimbabwean authorities have clamped down on internet use due to violent protests breaking out over President Emmerson Mnangagwa's announcement of 150% hike on fuel prices. Access to the internet was reinstated on Monday, but the country is still not at peace.

The internet was first shut down due to the government wanting to limit Internet access to halt circulation of images showing security forces responding violently to the protests. The protests erupted after Zimbabwe's president stated that a price hike on gas prices was required to ease months of fuel shortages. The public unrest led to at least 12 killed and 25 injured.

The Zimbabwe Association of Doctors for Human Rights said it has now treated more than 150 different cases of assaults with sharp objects, baton stick, and broken legs. A nurse from a private hospital in Harare has even reported to attending to a man with a broken spine. Many of Harare's residents who went to seek food have reported to being tear-gassed by the police.

The United Nations says it has received reports of security forces using live ammunition, conducting door-to-door searches, and arresting more than 600 people nationwide that are suspected of being against the leadership. A spokesman of the UN High Commissioner for Human Rights stated that they call on the government to find ways of engaging with the population about their grievances without resorting to violence.

The protests are described as a buildup of anger and frustration at an economy that is grinding to a halt. The job economy is barely getting by and people are beginning to suffer. But, the cost of living in Zimbabwe has skyrocketed with soaring inflation.
Emmerson Mnangagwa was seen as a more liberal leader, which attracted many to his campaign. He was elected last year after the dictator Robert Mugabe stepped down following 37 years in power. But now, many of his voters claim that Mnangagwa and his government is all a stunt and no substance. Activist Pastor Evan Mawarire says "They say Zimbabwe is open for business, but they close any space for free expression and for citizens' voice".

We, as an international community, can bring light into the political injustice taking place. The international community can post pictures of the protests on different social media in order to raise attention. While there isn't much we can do hands-on, getting the information of what's happening in Zimbabwe can help benefit its citizens immensely.

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