Change isn't something that everyone is comfortable with, but inevitable in college. You will change. Whether its that you decide to become a vegetarian, or are just changing your major, college will challenge who you are and what you believe. My sorority has changed me and my perspective, and I couldn't be more grateful.
1. I’m more comfortable with how I dress my body.
I have always been self-conscious of my body, and the idea of being judged for what I wear. Theta has taught me that being in a sorority doesn’t mean that you have to be a certain size or wear a certain type of clothing. If you’re more comfortable in pants than a skirt for meeting, go for it. There’s no size limit on crop tops or high-waisted jeans. And I can rock a tight cocktail dress or a flowy prom dress for formal, and know that my sisters won’t judge me.
2. I care a lot about my philanthropy
Being a Theta you learn about the organization, CASA, which stands for Court Appointed Special Advocates and they assist children in the foster care system. I never knew what CASA was before Theta, but I deeply admire the work this organization does and am proud to help raise awareness and support for them.
3. I like pink now
I used to “hate” pink because it was too girlie, and being girlie is so terrible, right? My sorority taught me to reconcile my femininity and feminism, as many of my older sisters had already learned this and weren’t afraid to impart their wisdom. Being feminine doesn’t make you any less feminist. I can wear a bubblegum pink dress and protest the luxury tax on tampons, because pink looks really nice on me and tampons are not luxurious.
4. I’m a craft addict
I mean I always loved art, but once I tried crafts I was hooked. Now I keep a whole box full of paints, and brushes, and canvases just to get my fix whenever I need. I even keep extra sandpaper and chug jugs to make impromptu birthday or Christmas gifts. Proceed with extreme caution when crafting. Craft addictions may lead to binge crafting during big/little week and many sleepless nights.
5. I’m more confident
My sisters have shown me how the benefits of putting yourself out there and trying new things. My big is a triple major, with jobs and internships and never stops striving to do better. She’s always encouraging me to apply for things and put myself out there. One of my best friends from Theta has always encouraged and supported me in whatever I’ve wanted to try, she’s always there to give me a million reasons why I should put myself out there. Their love and support has made me a much more confident person, and I am so thankful for them.
