11 Ways That Dating Is More Riveting In College Than High School Especially When You Don't Have To Telling Your Parents About It | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

11 Ways That Dating Is More Riveting In College Than High School Especially When You Don't Have To Telling Your Parents About It

I may be older, but I'm not much wiser in this category.

Rachel Mergen
Jan 28, 2018
University of Wisconsin Branch Schools
278
11 Ways That Dating Is More Riveting In College Than High School Especially When You Don't Have To Telling Your Parents About It
Bryan Apen

Many things change once you enter into college, including dating. College dating, luckily, is much more intriguing than high school dating ever was.

1. You don’t have to ask for permission.

In college, you no longer have to ask your parents for permission to go see someone, unless you really want to. The only person you have to ask permission from is yourself, and then it usually, at least in my case, turns into a debate of whether it’s more important than homework.

2. Dating apps are more of a thing.

I never downloaded Tinder before coming to college. It wasn’t much of a thing in my hometown, but on campus it seems that everyone has one and that there are a lot of opportunities. Of course, this may lead to some awkward encounters when you see someone you’ve been talking to on there in person for the first time and you’re in sweatpants.

3. Going over to the person’s house means more.

There’s no parents at their home to watch you. Especially freshmen year, it’s just you and them in a small little dorm room with possibly one other person, unless they kicked them out. There is no escape. Good luck. If the conversation goes downhill, it’s not quite the easiest to avoid them or talking. Luckily, the door is pretty close no matter where you are in the room.

4. There’s less gossip following it.

I have never had anyone in college gossip about my dating life, at least to my knowledge. Maybe I’m just lucky or have too few of friends for anyone to care about who I’m seeing or what I’m doing.

5. Long-term is connected more to the relationship, if it’s serious.

If you’re not just out for a night of bliss and you actually want a serious relationship with the person, the future may be more on your mind. In college, I’ve begun to see a lot of friends of mine are out getting married, buying houses, and having babies. This leads to me wondering who will be with me when I’m at the point where I want to start all of those phenomenal and horrifying life milestones.

6. Time management is highly important.

Yes, you may want to see the person you are dating every night, but you have to put your education first or at least, I beg of you, on the same level. If you can study with that person, do so, but if not, leave some time to travel down to the library and crack a book open.

7. College students have more experience.

For most, they’ve been on dates before and they know what to expect. No, this does not lower the nerves, but it does enable them to sometimes handle it a bit better. Of course, if someone hasn’t dated before college, that is okay too. I just hope they are ready for a wild journey.

8. The question of sex is often more prominently on the table.

Often, I have to ask myself if someone I like just wants to have sex or if they are in for the long haul. In high school, especially as underclassmen, sex is more scandalous, but here it’s just part of life. Of course, no one should feel forced to have it though. It’s okay to say no.

9. It’s easier to meet people who actually share common interests.

Especially when students begin to enter into upper level classes, they begin to meet people who have similar majors and interests. Conversations are easier and bonds are created much quicker.

10. There are more locations to meet people in the area.

In high school, you have more limitations of where you can go and when. In college, you can go out on the town with friends and meet people that you wouldn’t otherwise.

11. It’s easier to hide them from your parents.

If your date has some characteristics that you know your parents wouldn’t like, it’s much easier to hide it from them. I wouldn’t recommend hiding your interest in total from your parents, but it doesn’t hurt to hide a few things, right?

Yes, college dating may be a bit more intimidating, but one thing will always be the same: You will never be fully prepared for that first date.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

15 Times "Parks and Recreation" Summed Up Your Library Experience

"I've only slept nine hours over the past four days, so I'm right on the verge of a nervous breakdown." - Leslie Knope

University of Iowa
5054
Parks and Recreation excitedly gathered around a laptop at a table in an office setting.

The library. Club lib. The place every college student goes when they want to try and be a productive member of society. Who better to explain your experience than Parks and Rec?

1. When you've finally found the energy to leave your dorm room and walk into the lib like

Keep Reading...Show less
parks and recreation
Entertainment

Taylor Swift's Eras Tour is What I Hope Heaven Feels Like

By: James McDonald

9538
Taylor Swift in orange dress playing a moss-covered piano on stage with bright lights.

A three-and-a-half-hour runtime. Nine Eras. Eleven outfit changes. Three surprise songs. Zero breaks. One unforgettable evening. In the past century, no other performer has put on an electric performance quite like Taylor Swift, surpassing her fans ‘wildest dreams’. It is the reason supporters keep coming back to her shows each year. Days later, I’m still in awe of the spectacle ‘Miss Americana’ puts on every few days in a new city. And, like one of Taylor’s exes, has me smiling as I reminisce about the memories of the night we spent together.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

A Few Thoughts Every College Freshman Has

The transition into adulthood is never easy

Dubuque, IA
29294
Mays Island
Courtney Jones

Today I started my third week of college at Minnesota State Moorhead. I have survived welcome week, finding my classes on the first day, and being an awkward loner in the dining hall. Even though I have yet to be here for a month, I have already experienced many thoughts and problems that only a new college student can relate to.

Keep Reading...Show less
freshman
Student Life

8 Easy Ways to Get Involved in College

It's easier than you think.

Kansas State University
20976
Students walking on a sunny college campus with trees and buildings.

"Make sure to get involved when you're in college!"

We've all heard some variation of this phrase, whether it came from parents, other family members, friends, RAs, or college-related articles. And, like many clichés, it's true for the most part. Getting involved during your college years can help you make friends, build your resume, and feel connected to your campus. However, these commitments can get stressful if you're dealing with personal issues, need to work, or aren't sure how to balance classes and everything else going on during the semester.

Keep Reading...Show less
college
Relationships

9 Reasons Why Friends Are Essential In College

College without friends is like peanut butter without jelly.

Widener University
12882
Bridgaline Liberati and friends
Bridgaline Liberati

In college, one of the essential things to have is friends. Yes, textbooks, a laptop, and other school supplies are important but friends are essential. Friends are that support system everybody needs. The more friends you have the better the support system you have. But you also have someone to share experiences with. And don’t settle for just one or two friends because 8 out of 10 times they are busy and you are studying all alone. Or they have other friend groups that do not include you. Don’t settle for just one or two friends; make as many friends as you can. After the first couple of weeks of college, most friend groups are set and you may be without friends.

Keep Reading...Show less
friends

Trending Topics

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments