Heredity didn't make us sisters; that's a choice we made on our own. Never did I think I would meet someone who paralleled me so closely, but here you are. And these are my vows to you.

I vow to always be honest with you, even if it hurts.

"That shirt is unflattering."

"Your relationship isn't working out."

"You haven't been exercising."

"Don't get that tattoo."

It's only because I am sometimes more aware of your potential than you are and know that you deserve and are capable of the best. I will always do everything in my power to help you reach that potential and to never hold back when you ask for advice. Know that if you ask for my opinion, I will never lie and I will never withhold because I believe in you.

I vow to support you, no matter what. We have already been through hell and back, and I'll be damned if I let you go through this life without a sidekick. If we end up on different continents, if life gets in the way and we forget to talk for weeks on end, if everyone else bails, then know that I have got your back. I will always be on the other end of the phone, ready to talk it out.

I vow to always make sure you maintain a sense of adventure. The world is vast and full of experiences to be had. I will make sure you see and experience as much of it as humanly possible and I will be right there at your side. Even if we are apart, I hope the adventurous spirit of our friendship drives you to take more chances; take the long way, hike that trail, make an impromptu road trip, live it all.

I vow to be your reminder. Reminder that you're good enough, that you have nothing to apologize for in being yourself. To not let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. That when you're in a dark headspace, you need to lose yourself in nature and fresh air to find your happiness once more. I will remind you of where you've been and how much you have overcome. Remind you that you have been through worse and you can endure whatever this life throws at you.

I vow to always make sure your life is full of laughter. If there's one thing we're good at, it's cheering each other up. I promise to be your personal comedian when you need a smile and to always maintain our special sense of humor. I promise to not stop until I see a smile on your face when I know you need it the most.

These are my vows to you, my soul sister.