To my future husband,
As of this very moment, I do not believe our lives have intersected just yet. While I can’t wait to meet the man God intends for me to marry, I will be as patient as possible until He is ready for our paths to cross. Maybe we have seen each other in passing at the supermarket, or even made small talk while out and about. When the time comes for us to meet, I know we both will be ready.
I promise that I will always be 100% dedicated to our relationship. I know I can be incredibly stubborn, but our relationship will be my top priority. I have a strong belief that when you make room for God in a relationship, nothing can cause it to sink. I vow to always place our difficulties in His hands to help find the strength to fix it. I promise to always keep my ears open when you need to be heard. I will continue to be the rock you need on your weakest days and I know you will do the same for me.
While we have not met, I know our home will be full of joy and laughter consistently. The man I will share my life with will be the father our children deserve. You will be the steady guide in their lives to always show them right from wrong. However, you will also be the comic relief during their bad days. I vow to always be the equal partner you need to provide our children with a loving home.
There are a few things you should know about me first. My feet are always cold. I will never be able to reach the top shelf of anything. I can’t sugar coat anything to make it sound nicer. My facial expressions do not hide the way I’m feeling. But I have a huge heart and love hard. The man God has created for me will be able to compliment my flaws effortlessly. For that, I am already thankful.
To some, I’m probably crazy for making such bold vows to a man I haven’t even met. To me, I am preparing for the greatest years of my life. When you find your way to me, I will enjoy every second of the adventure. Until then, I can only imagine what your life is like for now. I have had my fair share of heartache throughout my journey to meet you, but I know it will all be worth it in the end. If you can love the wrong person that much, just imagine how much love you can give to the right one!
I will never regret those who had my heart before you because they showed me what I truly want in a relationship. I understand that no one is perfect, however, I know that when the time is right, we will be perfect for each other. You will come to learn that I’m most likely one of the least patient people on the planet. It has taken me some time to understand why you couldn’t be in my life sooner, but I believe that timing is everything. I can’t wait to meet you when I am meant to.
“I am sure that God keeps no one waiting unless he sees that it is good for him to wait.” -C.S. Lewis
