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Why You Should Just Use Your Words

I like you but I'm gonna act like I don't, might even act like I don't know you when I see you, because I like you.

Why You Should Just Use Your Words

Don't text him first more than two days in a row; it makes you look clingy. Don't be too eager to open and reply to a snap; it might show you're interested. Don't show her too much attention in public; you aren't exclusive yet. What are you doing sending that double text? You might as well just send "I like you." Do you hear how silly all of this sounds?? The playing hard to get game lately has been revised with new rules and restrictions, and we are all abiding by them. I don’t know about you but I don’t remember the last time trying to show someone I wasn’t interested in them (when I clearly was) ever worked for me, but now we have this crazy idea in our head that acting like we are interested will scare them off. If I am into you, I should not have to second-guess texting you or not at 5 p.m. because I haven’t heard from you all weekend. Plus, what is up with this new social trend we have all acquired where when I see you in public we act like we don’t see each other, but instead shoot the text ten minutes later “hey I saw you”? Oh really, that’s weird because I don’t remember you saying hi like a normal human being, you sure it was me? Why is the dating game placed with so many rules like “wait for them to make the first move” or “guys really dig it if...” Why can't I just be myself and you be you and we just enjoy each other's company? Imagine a world where everyone was actually straightforward and just said what they wanted. There would be no more “where do you want to eat?” arguments, people could actually say how they feel and move on with it, world peace might even get accomplished for all we know. No one should ever have to play the guessing game of where they stand with an individual, but no one should ever feel like suppressing their feelings is the way to go to not scare someone off. Society has learned to shield themselves with the tools of media, confrontation is hidden behind a phone, attention is giving through a “like” and a “favorite,” asking for a number is cheaper than asking someone on an actual date. Michael Scott once said "you miss a hundred percent of the shots you don’t take", so if you’re into someone try this new thing called expressing it. Now-a-days that’s the most attractive thing a person can do. There is no logic in playing the "I'm into you but I can't show you because I may come off strong so instead I'll just make you think I could care less about you" game. Please stop playing it, go out there on a limb and wear your heart on your sleeve because the right ones will accept it and the wrong ones weren't meant to deserve you anyways, but just imagine how many great things would happen if we just used our words.

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