First, you have to know yourself. Know what you want, what you like, what you don’t. Prioritize your grades, your health, and maintain a good attitude. More importantly, you must love yourself, get close to God, improve your health and don’t let New Year’s resolutions fade by February. Be pleasant, be a leader, express yourself, and your individuality will shine: positivity will radiate from you, and you automatically become more attractive. Remember that if you promote positive vibes, good humans will find you appealing because they value these qualities. The rest will fall into place. Don’t go searching for that special someone. They will eventually find their way into your life. Have fun with them. Go exploring, create memories, all that good stuff.
When you’re completely sure that you want to spend the rest of your life with him/her, and he/she accepts you, flaws and all, say yes, and more rejuvenating adventures will prevail. He’ll (or she will) want you to succeed and share similar goals, thus you both inevitably fall into a perpetuated cycle of self-betterment. Sadly, most people confuse this self-improvement as an act of trying to get attention, to impress someone--this, my dear, is the epitome of our youth’s corrupt perspicacity, for self-betterment is exclusively for the self-- not the selfish.
