10 Ways To Treat Her Right

10 Ways To Treat Her Right

Essentials to a Serious Relationship
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Boys, more than likely you have found the right girl. But chances are you don’t quite know what she needs. So here is a list of things that you can do to make things a whole lot better between you two. When you and your queen start getting really good at being together, you will find that it is very difficult being apart.

Communicate.

If you have been dating for a while and are past that awkward new-relationship phase, talk to each other about everything. You two need to establish a transparent line of communication where you can give yourselves the best opportunity to understand each other.

Learn about one another.

The more you talk the more you learn about one another. You may find that you have a lot more in common than you think. This opens up a world of fun and exploration for the two of you.

Let her know she is appreciated.

When her contributions are acknowledged and appreciated by you, her confidence will soar and she will be motivated to keep being awesome for you. Your friends will call you lucky to be with such a great girl.

Go all out for her.

Like the Blink-182 song goes: “surprises let me know she cares.” Even when it is not a special occasion, treat her to something special. Those special things may be just what she needs on a rough day. If you have done the first few things on the list, you will know exactly what to do for her. Every girl is different. Every girl has those things that make them the happiest. Cheese seems to work really well a lot of the time.

Be passionate.

Feelings and emotion are a big thing for most girls. Every time you touch it should be soft, delicate and affectionate (unless she tells you otherwise... hint-hint). Give her lots of hugs all of the time and kiss her everywhere. She will love all of the attention and you will learn how to give her goosebumps on demand. She will melt in your arms.

Be protective.

It is a good feeling when you are the one who makes a girl feel safe. Know what makes her feel uncomfortable and work to keep her safe from those things. Now, this doesn’t mean be ready to square up with every dude that walks by, but have the tact and the social intelligence to keep her out of uncomfortable situations, or if you are in one, to get yourselves out.

Be friends with her friends.

Even if you and her friends aren’t into the same things, seeing how you are with her friends and in social situations can tell her a lot about you that you probably couldn’t express directly with words. This also play’s off the last one. People feel safe with their friends. With her friends, you will see her as her most natural self. This will give you a good idea as to who she really is.

Invite her to hang with your friends.

She will be able to make a solid determination about you by knowing your friends. If she likes your friends, you’re in. This is a big thing for girls to see if you are truly being yourself around them.

Make sacrifices.

This one is a bit cliché, but everything becomes cliché for a reason. Usually there is some truth to it. Relationships are not easy and the must be some give and take in order for things to work. When your queen sees that you are giving things up for her, chances are you will see some type of return in the future. She will appreciate what you do for her and maybe she will make it worth your while. A giving spirit is a happy one.

Be her best friend.

I didn’t save this for last because it is the least important, but because it is perhaps the MOST important and I wanted this the be the last thing you read. It sums up everything else in this short list. If you are best friends with your girlfriend, she is probably the one. Everything aforementioned in this list is a component to friendship. A good relationship is a friendship at its core. If you have these things, you are going to be well off.

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I Blame My Dad For My High Expectations

Dad, it's all your fault.
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I always tell my dad that no matter who I date, he's always my number one guy. Sometimes I say it as more of a routine thing. However, the meaning behind it is all too real. For as long as I can remember my dad has been my one true love, and it's going to be hard to find someone who can top him.

My dad loves me when I am difficult. He knows how to keep the perfect distance on the days when I'm in a mood, how to hold me on the days that are tough, and how to stand by me on the days that are good.

He listens to me rant for hours over people, my days at school, or the episode of 'Grey's Anatomy' I watched that night and never once loses interest.

He picks on me about my hair, outfit, shoes, and everything else after spending hours to get ready only to end by telling me, “You look good." And I know he means it.

He holds the door for me, carries my bags for me, and always buys my food. He goes out of his way to make me smile when he sees that I'm upset. He calls me randomly during the day to see how I'm doing and how my day is going and drops everything to answer the phone when I call.

When it comes to other people, my dad has a heart of gold. He will do anything for anyone, even his worst enemy. He will smile at strangers and compliment people he barely knows. He will strike up a conversation with anyone, even if it means going way out of his way, and he will always put himself last.

My dad also knows when to give tough love. He knows how to make me respect him without having to ask for it or enforce it. He knows how to make me want to be a better person just to make him proud. He has molded me into who I am today without ever pushing me too hard. He knew the exact times I needed to be reminded who I was.

Dad, you have my respect, trust, but most of all my heart. You have impacted my life most of all, and for that, I can never repay you. Without you, I wouldn't know what I to look for when I finally begin to search for who I want to spend the rest of my life with, but it might take some time to find someone who measures up to you.

To my future husband, I'm sorry. You have some huge shoes to fill, and most of all, I hope you can cook.

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Snapchat Has Become The Newest Dating App Of Our Generation

"Can I get your snap?"

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In this day in age, everyone has the app Snapchat and if you don't, you might be missing out on the biggest dating opportunity of our time. The app Snapchat was originally used to send ten-second photos of yourself to your chosen friends but in recent years it has grown to become a source of communication for dating. People would rather hand out their Snapchat usernames rather than their real phone number.

Snapchat was originally used to do brief communication with your closest friends. You can only send quick pictures of yourself or whatever is around you and only put very few words on a picture. Does that sound like a quality conversation to you? That's because it isn't. Dating has become more and more online in the past few years which has caused this growth in Snapchat being used for this sole purpose. People can easily put this picture perfect life on Snapchat and only capture their best selves. You don't even have bios on Snapchat so the person knows less about you than on any other dating app, only what you choose to share in those ten-second photos.

The use of Snapchat in dating has changed dating altogether. It has caused it to become less conversational and more about a game. Once giving or receiving a person's Snapchat, people always feel like the other person should always respond first because it shows that they care but if they don't it shows that they are not interested. Even when they do send a Snapchat, it's always about the waiting game. If you respond too quickly, then you look desperate but wait too long then it looks like you're not interested. People also give out Snapchats rather than phone numbers because of its lack of ties. If you give someone your Snap it means they might be interested but only give the phone number if you know them really well and want to potentially date them. It is always about the game when it comes to Snapchat dating and if you play the game wrong, then you end up getting ghosted.

With this new online dating world, people are able to ghost a person easier than in real life. Ghosting is when you are talking to someone and out of the blue, they drop all communication with you and never speak to you again. Sorry ladies if you got ghosted recently but it actually happens more often then some would think due to online dating. People are easily able to un-add people on social media and ignore their messages.

While Snapchat is a great app to communicate with friends, the use of it as a source of dating and getting to know someone is questionable. People use it to try and get to know people which it lacks because of its limited ways to communicate. So the next time someone asks you, "Can I get your Snap," just know the purpose behind it is not what you may think.

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