I have now grown accustomed to the confused look I get from people when I try to explain to them where I’m from. I normally have to settle by telling them that it’s in between two major cities that people might’ve actually heard of. (That in reality are 45 minutes away from my actual “home” and are the complete opposite of how my small town really is). Growing up, I always had the desire to experience what it would be like to live in a big city where exciting things happen or actually having options of how to spend our free time. No, we don’t have a Target, a Walmart and definitely not a shopping center. Looking back, I might’ve taken it all for granted because after high school, I learned that growing up in a small town has made me into the person I am today.
Everyone knows everyone. Many can look at this at being a negative thing, but it can also be positive. Typically, you know everyone, their families, their boyfriend/girlfriends and bits or pieces of their story. If someone I don't recognize sees me, they don't hesitate to ask about my life or my family. They're not searching for a generic response, but a genuine one. Considering I have always been fortunate enough to have such caring people in my life, it has taught me to be the same way. I know the importance of building strong relationships and getting to know people on a more personal level.
It's taught me to be selfless. Since everyone does know everyone, we often put each other first. While we all go through our own struggles, if a hardship occurs within our community-- we come together. This has taught me to lend a helping hand, listening ears and words of encouragement to those who are feeling down. I often try to consider others' feelings before mine in any situation.
It's taught me to be appreciative. "There's nothing to do" is a phrase often said by people (or maybe just the teenagers) that live in a small town. Although we may complain about the lack of "things to do" we can always make the best out of nothing, whether that means spending your Friday night at a football game, riding around on back roads or eating with your friends at a local restaurant. (Where you'll definitely run into someone you know).
I also appreciate all the hard work that my small town embodies; from farmers, to local business owners and even to moms and dads. They all work their butts off. It has made me realize that you have to work hard for what you want. You have to give 110% if you want to get something accomplished and in the end, it will be worth it.
Even if we don't always love our small town, you've got to admit it's taught you some of these same life lessons. Growing up in a small town has made me grow into a person with a big heart, and I am proud of that. Despite all the times I desperately wanted to get away, deep down I really am proud of where I come from (even if no one seems to know where it is).
