This past week, a young guy in my community passed away in a tragic car accident. Although I didn't know him personally, we share a lot of the same friends. It really hits hard when you realize the life of someone, who was only three years older than you, was taken away so quickly. One minute everything was fine, and the next, time stopped completely. There are so many things that are put into perspective when you realize how precious life is. What would happen if tomorrow never came?
If tomorrow never came, then there would be so much left unsaid. Think of all the conversations you wouldn't have. You would never have that interview for your dream job or talk about your future with the one you love. You couldn't have the conversations we don't look forward to, either. You could never tell your crush how you feel. You wouldn't be able to tell your parents how much you appreciate them. You couldn't tell your siblings how proud you are.
If tomorrow never came, then there would be so many memories left unmade. Think of all the things in life you wouldn't be able to experience. You could never get married to the love of your life, have children or travel the world. You would never be able to look back on your life at 95 and smile at all the memories you have made. You would never have the opportunity to share your crazy memories with your grandchildren.
If tomorrow never came, then there would be so many emotions left unfelt. There are some emotions that are tied to experiences that you can only understand when you've gone through them. Marriage, children, reminiscing on life at an old age -- those emotions can only be felt when you go through them.
When tomorrow comes, there are so many things you should do and be thankful for. Say what's on your mind. Tell your crush how you feel. Tell your parents you love them and your siblings how proud you are. Don't ever hold back on anything. Take risks and never live life with regret. Spend time with the people you love. If your friend calls you at 2 a.m to go get a milkshake, then go get a milkshake! It could turn into a crazy adventure. Don't be afraid to admit your feelings and reflect on them. You can't help how you feel.
Never take life for granted; it's a precious thing. Not every day is promised to you. Never say, "I'll do it tomorrow." Do it today. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. One day you're here and the next, you're not. Live every day as if tomorrow isn't coming, because you never know when your time is up.
